Hi I am a mum of 2 children 2 boys aged 13 and 6, I live about an hour away from my family and see them about once every 2/3 months.
I have always had a very close relationship with my older brother but this is increasingly becoming strained due to the relationship between our two youngest children.
Our children are very close in age but are very different characters. My Niece who is 8 has always been quite a challenging child in my mind and has in the last few years become very spiteful to my youngest son, I have noticed that she will pinch, hit and scratch my son and when he retaliates she then plays the victim.
My son is a gentle child but can be a bit of a drama queen and very often if my niece hurts him will overreact and then is the one who gets into trouble especially with my brother who thinks boys should be tough.
I have closely observed them and I'm not saying my son is perfect but my niece starts most of the arguments and seems to enjoy getting him into trouble this seems above and beyond that of normal child arguments and is almost systematic bullying.
Other family members have noticed this including my two younger sisters but my brother and his fiancée are oblivious and very often tell my son off and very much think it takes two to tango .
My niece has an older half sister who has been very spiteful to her in the past and this has largely gone unpunished so I fear the victim has become the bully.
Its getting to the stage where I want to avoid her to protect my son but fear this will break down my family as I love my niece and want to help her.
Any advice would be greatly appreciated.
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scottishegg · 27/08/2013 18:19
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