DH and I have been overpaying off our mortgage in the hope that we can be mortgage free by the time I am 40.
Last summer I overpaid £5000 which I had saved up in the previous year, it was hard work but I though we had the common goal. Mortgage overpaying was his idea. I asked DH to call the mortgage company to tell them we didn't want to change the payment amount. He said he had. Its his mortgage so I cant do it.
Got the statement this morning and he has not done it, he has been paying less each month so my overpayment was for nothing. When I asked him why he lied he told me that he did it to stop him nagging.
We havent rowed about it, but I am pretty annoyed. He says its a mistake and therefore I cant be mad.
AIBU. I am prepared to be told I am petty and I probably am, but TBH I am annoyed.
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AIBU to still be cross even if DH says it was a mistake?
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ShadeofViolet · 27/08/2013 15:07
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