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AIBU?

to stop using the dishwasher?

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gremlindolphin · 20/08/2013 00:06

We have just come back from hols where we took turns washing up or did it together and it just seemed so much better!

I have been told it is more efficient to use the dishwasher but I think it is a waste of effort to load and unload it especially as it invariably ends up with me doing it!

I am probably thinking nostalgically about this but I remember my parents and i would spend 15 mins together every evening washing, drying and putting away - job done.

Anyone want to join me in dumping the dishwasher?

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Morloth · 20/08/2013 00:08

Not a chance in hell.

We lasted 4 days without a dishwasher, have never come so close to divorce.

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trashcanjunkie · 20/08/2013 00:10

can I please have your dishwasher? I am bastard sick of dish washing. We're housesitting next week and one of the main motivations is the house has a dishwasher!!! I'm deadly serious.

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ChippingInHopHopHop · 20/08/2013 00:13

I don't like them, so I don't have one :) Far too much faff loading and unloading, getting annoyed with other people for not putting stuff in them/putting it in incorrectly - much easier just to do the dishes!

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AgentZigzag · 20/08/2013 00:19

No fucking chance Shock

Washing up is the deadest dead time in the history of dead time jobs, I haven't even got a nice view out of the kitchen window to pass the time.

The cold panic I had when our last dishwasher broke down, facing the much longer than 15 mins worth of congealed/welded fat from a roast, will live with me forever

I think your holiday has gone to your head a bit, maybe have a lay down and it'll all be better by morning Smile

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AgentZigzag · 20/08/2013 00:22

You don't load/unload them yourself Chippy!

It's a nice job to start the DC off on their path to independence Wink

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springytoofs · 20/08/2013 00:38

I've no choice at the moment because mine is broken. I thought I'd see how I got on without one. It's a total PITA

I get what you mean about quality time, though. My kids are grown and flown so when I wash up (gruesomeist job) I only have quality time with myself. Dull tbf.

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5madthings · 20/08/2013 00:43

yabvu unless you give it to me! Grin


i would kill for a dishwasher! i am forever washing uo, tho at least the elder boys can help now, tho i do wonder when they will learn that if they dont do it properly all that means is they will waste time having to do it again and it would have been much quicker to do it properly in the first place!

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Monty27 · 20/08/2013 00:45

Nooooo way would I give up my dishwasher, not ever. It keeps the kitchen tidy, it washes the dishes lovely, it has a nice noise, I love it for many reasons, And it's quite pretty :)

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Morloth · 20/08/2013 00:51

As Agent says you don't unload it yourself if you have a child over the age of 5 in the house.

I load as I go through the day, put it on after dinner clean down and DS1 unloads when he gets up in the morning and is getting his breakfast.

Everything goes in if it can't go in the dishwasher I don't buy it.

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Still18atheart · 20/08/2013 00:59

Ahh you see I've stopped offering to unload dishwasher in this house as it starts WW3. My dm likes has lots of dishes which are stored in places she only knows exists. Also i'm really clumsy and i think shes scared that by the ebd of week one there won't be any plates or glasses left in the house.

But i agree with op at uni the washing up was so much simpler and easier also the tablets for the bloody thing cost an arm and a leg in comparison with washing up liquid.

I'm aware I will get flamed for this post.

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YouStayClassySanDiego · 20/08/2013 06:25

Ours broke a few years ago and I never bothered replacing it

It's not been that much of an inconvenience tbh.

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meganorks · 20/08/2013 06:29

No fucking way! But good luck with that

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Eastpoint · 20/08/2013 06:31

Our dishwasher broke & we waited 6 weeks for the spare part. It didn't bother me to begin but after about a month I was really fed up. We're a family of five, my husband usually has lunch at home & I don't load or unload the dishwasher. With no dishwasher I had to wash up as u

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Eastpoint · 20/08/2013 06:35

I wanted my children to get to school on time & it wastes water if each person washes up individually.

I was so pleased when we went back to having a working dishwasher.

YABU

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sleepywombat · 20/08/2013 06:38

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BikeRunSki · 20/08/2013 06:38

Morloth, you ate a kind mum, my DS has beeb putting hus stuff in.the dishwasher since he was 3! Nearly 5 now, he puts more in for sticksrs. If he gets 100 stickers by his birthday,we're going to the Lego Discovery Centre. He doesn' t know the tickets are ready booked.

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sleepywombat · 20/08/2013 06:39

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SellbyDate · 20/08/2013 07:01

What?! It takes me the time it takes to boil the kettle and make a cup of tea to unload it in the morning. OP I expect you will last less than a week. I'd hate to be without a dishwasher now...........

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pregnantpause · 20/08/2013 07:08

Yanbu- about not having a dishwasher. It's not hard to wash them yourself fgs. Yabu to think of it as valuable time with family, that it just a nostalgic rather fantastical view of a boring necessary job

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ImpatientOne · 20/08/2013 07:10

YABU

I would voluntarily stop using my dishwasher When. Hell. Freezes. Over.
Grin

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Sparrowlegs248 · 20/08/2013 07:20

YANBU ......ditto what sleepywombat said. We bought this house just over 3 yrs ago and the prev owner left her (perfectly good) dishwasher behind along with lots of tablets to go in it. We've nevr used it. There are only the 2 of us though so we would struggle to fill it. Also, if you are going to bother rinsing stuff off you may asell wash it.

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TeWiSavesTheDay · 20/08/2013 07:29

I am very jealous of all of you with dishwashers you don't use.

We have no dishwasher. There is a gap where it's meant to go that mocks me!

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ILetHimKeep20Quid · 20/08/2013 07:36

I don't understand why people see them as a hassle. You empty first thing in the morning while the kettle is boiling. Put your dirty dishes in it through the day, switch on last thing and that is it.

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comingalongnicely · 20/08/2013 09:15

We love ours, same as ILetHim above, empty first thing & the timer starts it at 02:00 on Economy 7.

We still hand wash the saucepans & cooking implements, it's just the crockery and cutlery that goes in the DW.

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Shlurpbop · 20/08/2013 09:21

Love my dishwasher! No more bickering over whose turn it is to wash up, or having to redo it cos DH has done a crap job of it!
Dishwasher = marriage saver!

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