My periods are awful. I am moody and bad tempered, but that's not the issue (not having periods won't change that ), my iron levels are always really low, I am very tired all the time and take iron tablets (400mg) every day. When I have a period due it is even worse, I can barely get out of bed some days. They are also VERY heavy. I go through sanitary products at the rate of knots! (TMI I know, sorry), forget mooncups and all that - tried them all. I was on Depo in the past and my periods stopped altogether, it was bliss. Now that DH has had the snip he doesn't want me to "fill my body with hormones" but AIBU to want to do it anyway?
Pretty much all hormonal contraception will eventually have some kind of beneficial effect on heavy periods as one of their actions is to thin down the endometrium. I would suggest a longer acting method to reduce the hassle of taking it backed up by something to reduce the short term bleeding disturbances that can occur when you start any method.
As far as DH goes, seeing as it appears he unilaterally decided to have a vasectomy he should desist from dictating what you can put in your body.
Itchywool in fairness to DH I haven't mentioned this to him, he says that he had a vasectomy to "save me from having to keep taking hormones", but he hasn't tried to stop me from going back onto depo. (I don't think he would really know what it was tbh!)
Im going to the doctor tomorrow for exactly the same reason. Im due on, my face is covered in spots, covered. Ive got awful PMT, st johns wort isnt helping my periods are ridiculously heavy despite a recent op to 'fix' it. I get anemic quickly and feel like shit.
YANBU, its your body, but for a long term solution to very heavy periods its probably not the bet approach. You could try tranexamic acid, but you'd be better off discussing with your GP and maybe try a mirena coil. These provide local progesterone to the uterus and often leave you period free after a while, certainly reduce the amount and frequency dramatically.