DD gets through her food in a variety of ways, fork, spoon, occasionally knife and if particularly ravenous, hands or rather handfuls (rice, beans, pasta etc)!! She sits at the table nicely, doesn't get down without asking and puts her knife and fork together on plate to indicate she has finished. I never made a big deal of any of this, just presented it as fun being like a grown-up at the table.
But nursery have told her (no doubt along with all the others) that 'no hands'. I have also been encouraging her to notice that adults eat with their mouth closed and she finds this fun to do to. Then I worried am I being slovenly letting her eat with her hands still? Are all the other kids at nursery eating with their cutlery nicely and there's mine shoveling it in with her hands . I planned to get her totally on to knife and fork and no hands in time for school next year but aibu to think it's still ok to eat with her hands sometimes now?
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To wonder about table manners for a 3.5 year old?
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monkeynuts123 · 20/07/2013 10:49
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