Had lunch with an old friend from school yesterday. She's dating and really hoping to find someone to marry - would love to have DC. I am married with one DD.
There is always a bit of sensitivity when I meet her - even before DD was born, about the different stages of our life we are in. I am really conscious of this and make a big effort to talk about work, travel, mutual friends etc, without referring to DH or DD too much.
Yesterday we got to the end of lunch and I realised that, as I had not mentioned DD, her existence had actually not even really been acknowledged. No question from my friend about how she was, or what we'd been up to.
I don't think she meant to be unkind, and I am really not sure I am being unreasonable to expect some interest into DD who is such a big part of my life. I really value her friendship so will probably just let it go, but WIBU to volunteer at least a bit of information about DD and the things that occupy my mind next time we meet?
Sorry I hope that all makes sense.
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