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AIBU?

To be unwilling to encourage dd do her homework this week as for the past 3 weeks her homework has not been marked?

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chocolatespiders · 07/07/2013 19:39

Or do I accept that it is a busy time of the year for teachers.

We have been enjoying the sunshine far to much to think about homework!!

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Shesaysso · 07/07/2013 19:44

Same thing happens at my DS's school. We havent done it this week. I'm sorry but I think if his teachers can't even be bothered to look at it why should we bother. He gets really disheartened when his elder sister gets feedback/ stickers for her homework and he gets nothing.

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Eyesunderarock · 07/07/2013 19:47

I hate giving regular homework and I hate marking it.
Write a note giving your reasons.

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Piddlepuddle · 07/07/2013 19:49

No you are absolutely NBU

Is absolutely fair enough that no one wants to or has the time to mark it.

In which case don't set the bloody stuff

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Eyesunderarock · 07/07/2013 19:50

School rules. Sad

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WMittens · 07/07/2013 19:50

I'm sorry but I think if his teachers can't even be bothered to look at it why should we bother.

Because you want your child to get educated?

I agree that the lack of feedback is crap, but the idea is to gain knowledge, not marks.

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LindyHemming · 07/07/2013 19:51

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arethereanyleftatall · 07/07/2013 19:52

Isn't homework for the Childs benefit, regardless of whether it's marked or not.

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chocolatespiders · 07/07/2013 19:55

If she doesn't do it she will miss play/lunch time and will have to do it during this time.
It is planning and designing an advert>>> oh no I think we have left it to late.. dd is still cooling in the paddling pool Smile

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fuzzpig · 07/07/2013 19:55

I would, but DD quite likes doing her fortnightly HW anyway (she's only 6, so that may not last forever :o) so no battle.

I did find that a lot of her HW seemed to get 'marked' (commented on) in one go last term - could that be the case with your DC?

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Blueandwhitelover · 07/07/2013 19:56

Oh dear, hopes none of yours are in my class I don't think I've marked homework for a couple of weeks because I've been so busy doing other things for end of term like plays, leaving assemblies, getting things organised to move classrooms, dealing with children who are worried about next year etc. Makes note to self to check books tomorrow :-)

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chocolatespiders · 07/07/2013 19:56

We did do the numeracy this morning Smile

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soverylucky · 07/07/2013 19:56

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ApocalypseThen · 07/07/2013 19:57

You do know that homework is for the child's benefit? It's not piecework that teachers are being paid to extract from child slaves.

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Eyesunderarock · 07/07/2013 19:58

Adverts are easy, faff around on word for a while, import images.
Email it or put it on a memory stick.
Or don't bother, but say why. The teacher has no defence then.

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formicadinosaur · 07/07/2013 19:58

My DS started to write quite outrageous things in his homework and always got a big tick.

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ANormalOne · 07/07/2013 19:58

I think you should encourage your DD to do homework still, but bring it up with her teacher that it hasn't been marked. I don't think it's appropriate to allow your DD to ignore her responsibilities, just because someone else is.

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Eyesunderarock · 07/07/2013 19:59

Then the school should decree July homework free, it's not as if the end of term is a surprise with the workload.

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Eyesunderarock · 07/07/2013 20:01

'My DS started to write quite outrageous things in his homework and always got a big tick.'

I love it when students get creative and riff on a theme. If I set English that is skills based and content free choice, they are amazingly inventive. Smile

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Katisha · 07/07/2013 20:02

Children need to see their effort has been acknowledged. If you're not going to mark it them don't set it. And DSs are fed up to the back teeth always having to do posters, leaflets, adverts...

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Shesaysso · 07/07/2013 20:07

Wmittens absolutely agree with you and I do put a lot of effort in to help Ds with his education. However he's 5 years old and with a choice of doing homework that won't get looked at or playing outside in the sun I'm afraid the latter has won for me this week.

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HooverFairy · 07/07/2013 20:08

I can understand why you feel this way, but aren't you just teaching your child that they don't have to put the effort in if other people don't? I'd still insist that the homework was done, then I'd write a separate letter to the teacher expressing how I felt about the work not being marked. The homework will benefit your dd, and trying to get out of doing something isn't the best lesson. It is a busy time of year, perhaps your dd's teacher is struggling with the marking load a bit.

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PasswordProtected · 07/07/2013 20:12

If that is the attitude from parents and teachers, it is no wonder that the UK is going to go down the economic tubes fairly soon.

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NotYoMomma · 07/07/2013 20:13

stupid argument

its like when parents don't read withtheir children or even take an interest in helping them learn and then get all arsey when they are not as good as other kids.

I hated volunteering in the school and seeing the same kids again and again with no parental input in their diaries

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chocolatespiders · 07/07/2013 20:19

3 teachers in the family and I know they are always bogged down with marking. DD sometimes helps with the giving out of stickers.

Will do it on word and nip into work extra early to print it out so DD can take it in tomorrow.

I agree July should be homework free Smile

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FunkyNails · 07/07/2013 20:23

Know what you mean formicadinosaur. We were told to stop correcting DSS spelling as if we do the teacher doesn't know what he is having difficulty with however it now comes back with a big tick and none of the words corrected as apparently it's only important he gets the assigned spelling words correct and not the other words in the sentences Hmm

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