I was at my local shopping mall today. It's quite a large one with a Debenhams store. I was browsing when I heard what sounded like a very upset young child crying. The bit of the store I was in opens into the interior of the mall.
I looked out towards the mall concourse and a little girl of no more than a very young three was crouched on the floor crying for her mummy. She must have been there for a couple of minutes. I looked around to see if her mummy was coming forward, but no-one did. One passer by asked me if the girl was mine! I walked over to the little one and got down to her level and asked her if she was OK and where was her mummy. The child was very distressed, lots of tears.
I looked about for a parent but still nothing. After about 30 seconds, a woman came out of Debenhams - she was the mother. The mother said she had left the wee one there as she "wouldn't come in to the shop". The mother said she could see the girl from where she was standing. The mum seemed to be with a man and another adult. I had not seen the mum or the adults and it seems they were out of sight of the child behind clothes rails. It seems that the child had had a tantrum and the mother had just left her there and had gone in to the shop to watch her have the tantrum from afar.
I realise children of that age have tantrums but I feel this was a strange way to deal with it. My DD had a tantrum aged about 2 in the same mall a few years back and we just bundled her up and took her home. I would never have just left her in the middle of the mall without being able to see me with people walking by. I feel sorry for the child.
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calidadsuprema · 23/06/2013 16:55
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