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To put this woman straight next time?

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LuisSuarezTeeth · 17/06/2013 09:38

In tesco yesterday. My trolley contained mostly value products, including fruit, veg, meat and cheese. I am on a very tight budget. 2 women behind me and I hear one stage-whisper "would you buy all that crap?"

Woman 2 says something I didn't hear, then woman 1 says "could be for the food bank, you wouldn't give them quality stuff..."

I turned and glared, they obviously realised I'd heard and looked embarrassed.

I should have said something, shouldn't I? What a cow Sad

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aldiwhore · 17/06/2013 09:40

Some people are arseholes, best ignored, keep your head held high and let them fester.

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wannabedomesticgoddess · 17/06/2013 09:40

No. You did the right thing. Dont rise to it. They are the nasty ones, ignore them.

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yaimee · 17/06/2013 09:43

Are you sure they were talking about you? If so I'd definitely have set them straight. Probably pelted them with my value fruit and veg to be honest.

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Scholes34 · 17/06/2013 09:45

It's the people who turn their noses up at all Value products that are the idiots and have more money then sense. I think a glare was sufficient in this case.

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ThinkAboutItTomorrow · 17/06/2013 09:46

Total cow, yes. Just console yourself that no amount of money can buy her the personality transplant she very desperately needs.

Or the brains. Fancy judging someone on their supermarket brand choice. Just ridiculous.

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MalcolmTuckersMum · 17/06/2013 09:47

But you don't know they were talking about your stuff do you? And anyway - stop earwigging - no good ever comes of it.

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Elquota · 17/06/2013 09:49

You did the right thing and it's good that they were embarrassed when they realised you'd heard. Having a rant wouldn't have done you any favours.

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LuisSuarezTeeth · 17/06/2013 09:50

Yes I'm sure it was about me - I could tell by how they looked when I turned round. Not many other people in there and the next till had no cashier.

It was quite a long glare I gave them but I wish I had said that food banks are not just for "crap", not that that's what I had bought!

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LuisSuarezTeeth · 17/06/2013 09:52

Malcolm I wasn't earwigging! I just heard that's all they weren't very discreet

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Snoopytwist · 17/06/2013 09:54

Don't worry about it - hold your head high in the knowledge that you are living within your budget - you never know, they could well be maxed up to the eyeballs on credit cards and debt, and just about to have their card declined at the checkout Grin

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ephemeralfairy · 17/06/2013 09:54

What the fuck is so bad about buying fruit and veg?? Value or otherwise?? They're probably the kind of imbeciles who think a Taste the Difference ready meal represents good quality food just because it's overpriced and has posh(er) packaging...!
Don't let it bother you. The glare was sufficient.

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1Veryhungrycaterpillar · 17/06/2013 09:55

They can't be very good friends to each other if all they've got to talk about is a strangers basket of food! Maybe there was someone standing just out of your eyeliner with a trolley full of doughnuts

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DeepRedBetty · 17/06/2013 09:56

Anyone that rude is going to be so serenely convinced that she is right that nothing you can do or say will ever get through.

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Loutwenty · 17/06/2013 09:56

I have had the same thing in Sainsbury's. I can only afford to buy own brand stuff, so my basket is full of everything in white and orange packaging!

However, none of it is 'crap' it's all healthy stuff or cleaning products.

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Loutwenty · 17/06/2013 09:57

And, to be honest, I am buggered if I am going to pay over a pound for a tin of beans when I can pay 20p. It's baked beans fgs.

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LEMisdisappointed · 17/06/2013 09:59

I only buy value products, we are on a budget. Yesterday my DP asked me if i would buy differently if i won the lottery, my honest answer - no.

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LuisSuarezTeeth · 17/06/2013 10:01

I assume she thought it was crap because it was all value stuff. Tbh I was too tired for a row anyway.

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LuisSuarezTeeth · 17/06/2013 10:02

Hmm LEM I'm not sure on that one - never thought about it.

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IcingTheCake · 17/06/2013 10:02

I hate people like this! At the end of the day, its food, and the fruit and veg especially is all the same no matter what 'brand' it is! Why waste money on the same product with better packaging?!

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GobbySadcase · 17/06/2013 10:02

Funnily enough a lot of value stuff - ie smart price pasta sauce_ has far less colours, flavours and bulking agents in. They all make it more expensive.

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thistlelicker · 17/06/2013 10:06

How does the apple know its going in the value bag as opposed to the taste the difference pack???? What exactly is the difference??? Some things I think have to be bought branded... For me beans and soup! Other things like pasata, spaghetti, tinned veg don't bother me!!!!

How dare them woman have their hoiky judge pants on! May karma bite their arse!! Well done op for the glare

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Sparklysilversequins · 17/06/2013 10:09

Its size and shape that determines value fruit and veg. Ridiculous isn't it? An spud exactly the same as the usual bag goes into the value pack because it's a bit small.

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wheredidiputit · 17/06/2013 10:11

I buy smart price fruit on purpose as they are smaller and the right size for my children to eat with no waste.

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pianodoodle · 17/06/2013 10:20

Silly mares.

I got a funny look at the self service till the other day - it normally shouts "coupon accepted" at you but mine shouted "coupons exceeded" :D

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ParadiseChick · 17/06/2013 10:25

You're the savvy one. They're like the Muppets who spend £140 a week to feed two and wine about how expensive it is.

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