I work part time in an office, I've been there for about 8 months now. I work on a small team who I get along with well apart from one.
We talk, but she's very abrupt with me, often given one word answers if I ask her if she had a nice weekend etc. She talks quite openly to everyone else but me, and she only talk to me if she has to. She's very very pretty, lots of confidence and says what she thinks.
Today it got to me, I asked her if she was up to anything and she said no. So I asked if she was going to see her mum and she said no.
So I sent her an email, asking if I had done anything wrong and that if she disliked me then it's OK to say, I'd rather know TBH. I said that this week it's been really hard to make conversation with her and I'd really like us to be able to get along.
She didn't reply at all, and muttered under her breath that she wasn't bothered. I don't know the girl very well, but it's hurt my feelings even more.
So no doubt now, she's told the other woman who works on the team and I bet they think I'm a right twat - sorry don't know how to swear!
I know not everyone can like everyone, but I'm only in the office three days a week, and for those three days I'd really like to enjoy it.
Was I unreasonable?
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NoobyNoob · 14/06/2013 15:30
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