Trying to arrange help for when I (possibly) have an op later in the week.
All I would like is for DH to take 2 days off. Look after 2 younger dcs whilst older 2 at school, let me reat when home and the following day BUT he wants me to postpone as "needs to work" and is worried how he will cope with dcs.
Dm said she "cannot possibly" take time off. Dsis said she will 'help' but her help involves taking the baby for a couple of hrs the following day out for a little walk in his "nice buggy" with her dp to cafe/shops and that's it.
Dh said he might be ok with 1 day off and I asked dm/dsis can I go to their house so am not on my own with dcs but dsis wasn't keen on 'proper' helping as its a lot of work and wants dh to help instead.
Mil wants to know why does dh need time off-shes apparently had a similar op and returned to work the same afternoon.
I just feel like cancelling, I'm nervous anyway and nobody wants to help me.
AIBU to just feel like screaming I'm so so frustrated?
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To be so frustrated that I want to just scream?!?!
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ariane5 · 11/06/2013 15:13
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