DS is apparently an angel at nursery all day. When I pick him up at 5 pm and take him home he morphs into a little monster. Of course I'm happy to play with him, but he refuses to look at books with me, do jigsaws, play with cars, or watch cbeebies with me on the sofa.
If I start to prepare dinner - which i simply have to do some evenings - he tugs at me and starts "pretend crying" with this horribe whining noise demanding food, yet when I give him some he throws it on the floor. All he wants to do is rough and tumble physical play sitting on my back as I crawl around the room or chasing games around the house. Obviously this is fine, for half an hour or so, but it's the end of the day, I'm tired and I can't sustain this for two hours until bath time. Even then, his attention span is short and it's a struggle to keep him entertained in the tub!
Am I being unreasonable to feel frustrated at this? Can I do physical play for an hour then ignore his tugging and whining while I prepare dinner / empty the dishwasher / hang up laundry? What's the best way of helping him to learn to be more independent?
I'm so envious of frends' toddlers who are happy to watch postman pat or play independently on the kitchen floor! god knows what will happen when number 2 arrives!
Please or to access all these features
Please
or
to access all these features
AIBU?
To ignore my 21 month old DS's "whining"?
27 replies
AnnieDelores · 13/05/2013 19:49
OP posts:
Don’t want to miss threads like this?
Weekly
Sign up to our weekly round up and get all the best threads sent straight to your inbox!
Log in to update your newsletter preferences.
You've subscribed!
Please create an account
To comment on this thread you need to create a Mumsnet account.