To be fucking angry at dh spying on me?

(26 Posts)
StickEmWithThePointyEnd Thu 09-May-13 23:04:46

I posted recently about being upset as its my mums birthday tomorrow and its the first one since she died.

Dh has been a knob all week, having a go at me for not doing enough housework and then staying ins mood long after the argument. So I have just avoided speaking to him because I don't want an argument.

Tonight all was going well, nice conversation when he asked if I wanted him to call in sick on my behalf tomorrow. I asked why I would want him to do that (as I know he doesn't haw a clue when my mums birthday is) an he said that he thought I'd be upset.

He only knows this because he has been reading my mumsnet posts, well specifically that one. He knows my username and password and I leave myself logged in bbecause he has no interest in mumsnet. I told him I didn't like being spied on but apparently it was "freely available information " so it doesn't matter how he found out. I say it does matter as he could have just asked me what was wrong but he was too busy having a ducking go at me for not picking up a dirty sock.

So now while I was doing well to goth, I'm now wide awake, anxious angry and upset and the bastard has come to bed t the same time as me, which he never does, so I can't even fume quietly on my own until I manage to fall asleep because he is here fucking annoying me just by being in the same room as me. I didn't want to ring I sick to leeks. I wanted to get on with it and move on bit now I'm more of a mess than before .

And I don't care of he sea this either ad he doesn't think I should be upset about him reading my posts. I never hi my passwords because I trusted him not to snoop! If I had a diary would he think it ok to read that too?

HollyBerryBush Fri 10-May-13 21:58:18

if you are going to slate your partner off, well, lets face it, it's not exactly the done thing in a stable relationship is it?

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