I have recently discovered my mother is a compulsive liar. Her lies are extreme and down right evil. They range from people having been mean to her for no reason to sexual aduse from a sister.
She has told people she overheard me and my partner plotting to kill dal that do abuses me, that I punched my aunty in the face (cos she abused me too!) and she suspects do abuses our son.
I'm finding all this incredibly hard to deal with as my mother was always my rock and she doesn't know I know.
She lives in my house, and pays minimum rent. if she didn't I could still afford to run the house but would have no spare cash at the end of the month. A clos Friend has suggested I move in with her for a year or so to save cash and ask my mum if she wants to rent the house because I'm struggling to be around her.
I should be down there now talking to her but at present I'm hiding upstairs pretending to be asleep because I'm feeling sick about the whole thing. To read this you'd think she was downright awful when you met her but she's not, she's lovely on the surface and the last person you would ever suspect such things of. I can't comprehend how she can stab me in the back then look me in the eye and not feel guilt. She was always my rock and there isn't another person on earth I'd be more hurt by doing this.
The problem is when I'm around her because she doesn't know it's like it hasn't happened and I go from feeling sorry for her to feeling hurt about 50 times over. She also used to be aggressive at points when I was younger and I guess I'm still a bit worried in case she does turn violent. I still feel like a scared little child.
Dp isn't here, we split for a while before Christmas and he moved back home, he has a job there now so lives there while we try long distance. Ds is with him this week.
So Aibu to be hiding like a child? Tell me I should man the fuck up and get down there!
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To be hiding upstairs instead of going and having it out with my mum
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YesIamYourSisterInLaw · 06/05/2013 19:21
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