I wrote a few days ago about mil & sfilncoming to stay and beeding some detachment sentences, they want to pay for ds private school, we don't want him to gothere - no after school care among other things. they want to pay for private school and nanny so he gets to go there.
Out for dinner tonight and it came up, did the 'thanks for the offer but it's not right for us' a few times and tried to change the subject, didn't work. Sitting across from me, she turned to h 'well, what about buaitisi working full instead of part time, can she do that' I started answering obvs as it was about me, she interrupted me and started asking dh 'have you thought about that, getting buaitisi to work full time, that's a solution for you to think about'
I just started laughing and said 'you can ask me, I'm right here, the public school is right for us and ds'
I know I can't change her behaviour, just my response but she drives me up the wall and I need to vent.
Another thing that's annoying me - dh,d and I are going to my home country for 6 wks over xmas, fil (mil's exh) his wife and bil are going to meet us there for a week from US where they live. Bil is 40 odd and fil & smil have said they'll get his flights. All fine so far.
mil hears about this, decides to offer to pay for bil's flights as 'I can't really trust that my exh will come through for him' the trip had fuck all to do with her, she hasn't seen or spoken to fil in 20 years but she just has to control it.
'now, buaitisi will you give me the dates when you know and I can start pricing flights,keep me updated and who will pick bil up from the airport?'
of course, this is all when dh isn't around as he can't stand her talking about his dad or brother but if I say it to him he'll think I'm trying to make his mom look bad
sorry for the long long post, not really expecting replies jut an outlet for my annoyance.
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buaitisi · 26/04/2013 15:24
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