I do have the right to be upset about this, yes?
Have gone through our recent bank records and found 25% of my last pay was withdrawn by dh for gambling.
I am so upset as this was money was my final payslip and I am now a sahm while I look for another job.
Dh says he didn't think to mention it as he has started a new full time job which pays a lot more than mine (he had been working part time and also partime sahd).
I think that this shows he does not value my salary and my work :( I wanted the last of my pay check to go into savings, now it feels like I shouldn't have bothered working and earning that money if he is going to just waste it so easily!
This is not in his nature at all. We have always discussed whether we can afford him gambling and he never does it more that twice a year and now he has broken this agreement, I don't know why this has changed now and I am so upset.
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Dh has gambled the last quarter of my last paycheck
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reneaa2 · 03/04/2013 11:17
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