Little bit of background. DS is currently 6, but will be 7 in June. My ex and I were together until he was 5 when I found out he had cheated on me and he is still with the woman he left me for.
We don't get on too well, but tolerate each other for our sons sake - and are mostly polite to each other.
Tonight DH has told me (after he dropped DS back at home) that he would like to take DS to Disneyland Florida with his girlfriend and her daughter in late August - but would obviously need me to give permission by law (I think?)
I've said I would think about it, but I wasn't happy with the idea. He said that I was doing this purely to get back at him and hurting our son in the process.
It does genuinely worry me that DS would be a 9 hour flight away, and that he would be gone for 2 weeks.
When I went in to say goodnight to DS he was talking about Disneyland to me - so obviously DH has mentioned it to him already. So if I say no DS will think of me as an awful person.
... I really don't mind being told YABU because I really have no idea if I am.
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AIBU?
To refuse to let ex take our son on holiday?
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OhanaHarlow · 01/04/2013 20:55
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