Ok don't flame me please...(sorry long)
My DP's daughter is ten and coming to stay for the easter holiday. It will be nice as 5 weeks ago our DD was born and hasnt spent much time with her yet.
But my problem is this. DP works overnight sometimes and before sd would stay with Mil at those times and with us when he wasnt at work.
Anyway Mil just said to me that it would be 'nice' if I looked after sd now when dp is at work! And got very snotty with when i said i wasnt comfy with that.
My reasons were
- Sd likes me ( i think) but we dont have what id call a close relationship
- Breastfeeding a hungry reflux baby is taking it out of me a bit, and im not sure how I will cope with a sometimes very hyper sd, baby and a puppy!
- Im at college full time and have 2 massive projects to do. Was hoping to complete these when dh was at work and sd at mil's
AIBU or is Mil right and Im a horrible person?