My brother was due to get married, he has realised that he doesn't want to be with his (now ex) F anymore and they have split. Nothing major happened but they are both young and I think he has realised he doesn't want to settle yet, entirely his decision and I admire him with having the guts to go through with it tbh. I admit me and the rest of the family think it is for the best, whilst I don't hate his ex, we did get on but I don't think she was particularly good for him at all (wanted things her way, he had no social life and checked absolutely everything with her and if she wasn't available then he wouldn't go either, stuff like that) but I do feel bad for her. Obviously she was getting married soon and she really did love my DBro. Would I be U to get in touch and see how she is? This happened last week and I only found out yesterday through my sister. I have spoken to my DBro and he is ok but still a bit shocked I think at the way things turned out, it was a very intense relationship.
Should I do it, run it by him first or leave it all together? I'm not sure how she will be with me seeing as I am his family and he has left her. Her mum also lived with them and is a massive influence and factor in her life and she is not happy at all about this. WWYD?
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CrapBag · 27/02/2013 16:11
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