to have left him

(240 Posts)
kim147 Wed 20-Feb-13 11:42:40

I've just been in a bar after a horrible argument with DH. Saw a nice bloke at the bar so I sat down, took off my ring and tried my luck.

Then my DH came over. He's had a bad time of it. He then started talking about the crop in the field and the fact that we've got 4 hungry children that need feeding.

I know we've had some bad times and some sad times but still.

So should I have left him or should I stand by my man grin

nkf Sun 24-Feb-13 22:18:08

I'm not sure you and this new guy want the same things. He's a rolling sotne and wherever he lays his hat, that's his home. Do you really want that, Kim?

When you are 24 hours from Tulsa remember the night has a thousand eyes.
But I suppose if you make loving fun you won't end up all cried out.

Jossysgiants Fri 22-Feb-13 23:13:39

I fear he is cheating on you Op.
Her beauty is beyond compare, with flaming locks of auburn hair.
I don't think you can compete with her.

Sunnywithshowers Fri 22-Feb-13 22:58:09

Could you give him just a little more time?

guffaw Fri 22-Feb-13 22:15:15

I bet your nerves have gone to pieces, your hair is turning gray,
All you do is drink black coffee,
Since your man's gone away

Well you could look at the Clouds Across the Moon I suppose ?

Now that he's gone,
All you've got left is a band of gold

kim147 Fri 22-Feb-13 21:26:39

I just want him to fly me to the moon and let me play amongst the stars.

13Iggis Fri 22-Feb-13 21:23:10

How can you be lovers if you can't be friends? How can you start over if the fighting never ends?

LatteLady Fri 22-Feb-13 21:21:44

I suggest you start looking fr something in red, something that shocking and will turn someone's head...

rainbowrainbowrainbow Fri 22-Feb-13 21:13:11

It's in his kiss x

IfNotNowThenWhen Fri 22-Feb-13 21:08:07

Just don't come home from drinking
With lovin on your mind.

KRITIQ Fri 22-Feb-13 20:59:26

You can go your own way! You can call it another lonely day.

Carmody Fri 22-Feb-13 19:48:22

Kim, No more tears, enough is enough (I think it's going to rain today, anyway). Next time you see him, tell him: "You Were Only a Splinter in My Ass as I Slid Down the Bannister of Life. True!"

hippoCritt Fri 22-Feb-13 19:28:19

Hello, is it me you're looking for?

kim147 Fri 22-Feb-13 19:17:29

But he doesn't send me flowers anymore.

Does he love me, I want to know, How can I tell if he loves me so?

13Iggis Fri 22-Feb-13 19:14:50

Actually, I can see where the OP's dh is coming from - when you're in love with a beautiful woman, it's hard.

13Iggis Fri 22-Feb-13 19:13:29

But what if he asks you to come back and stay for good this time? Or says he can't live, if living is without you? Or that every day hurts (just a little bit more) more than he's been hurt before?

Sunnywithshowers Fri 22-Feb-13 19:11:24

You will survive!

kim147 Fri 22-Feb-13 18:43:14

I've decided I'm going to wash that man right out of my hair, because love, love changes everything, But I don't know how to love him

I know there's a place for us, somewhere a place for us

<I love musicals grin >

OP, I think you should consider that you've got to say it, but it's hard for you: he's got you crying like you thought you would never be. Love is believing, but he let you down - how can you love him when he ain't around? You'll get through the morning, but he never calls.

Love should be everything or not at all. And it don't matter, whatever he do[es], you made a life out of loving him. Why does he have to be a heartbreaker? When you were being what he wants you to be?

Bloody men.

So many times you said it was forever,
Now you know what loving him cost
No you're out here talking divorce
And you weren't even married
(Well yes you are but let's not let the truth get in the way)

Just tell him "Ya-Mo Be There!

celebmum Fri 22-Feb-13 17:42:53

cant believe no one has told you this OP... but..

near. far. wherever you are.. your heart will go on. and oooooooooonnnnnnnnn

(im under 30!grin )

SoleSource Fri 22-Feb-13 17:38:41

Oooh sad I will listen on Youtube. Thank you smile

kim147 Fri 22-Feb-13 17:35:52

Solesource It's from Les Miserables. On my own

He's gone.

Heaven knows I'm miserable now

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