to have left him

(240 Posts)
kim147 Wed 20-Feb-13 11:42:40

I've just been in a bar after a horrible argument with DH. Saw a nice bloke at the bar so I sat down, took off my ring and tried my luck.

Then my DH came over. He's had a bad time of it. He then started talking about the crop in the field and the fact that we've got 4 hungry children that need feeding.

I know we've had some bad times and some sad times but still.

So should I have left him or should I stand by my man grin

riveroise Wed 20-Feb-13 11:46:47

I would ask him to beg your pardon, and remind him that you never promised him a rose garden.

Lovelygoldboots Wed 20-Feb-13 11:46:54

Your marriage sounds normal. You give very little info. You were unreasonable to try and cop off.

Lovelygoldboots Wed 20-Feb-13 11:48:26

blush. Doh!

kim147 Wed 20-Feb-13 11:58:41

My husband has gone and left. He always knew that he was going so he decided to call our DS Sue. I was a bit worried about this but DH says he has his reasons.

Should I change DS's name?

chocoluvva Wed 20-Feb-13 12:00:29

How about Peggy?

He's planning to leave you, calling your boy sue is a classic sign

kim147 Wed 20-Feb-13 12:03:26

Feel free to add your own ideas grin

I work in garage downtown. We like shining up our cars. Should I stick to the girls who come round here or should I go with my mother's advice?

Whocansay Wed 20-Feb-13 12:04:43

When my dh left, at first I was alone, I was pertried - but then I thought, I will survive.

You could stand by your man, or fight for the right to party.

FloatyFlo Wed 20-Feb-13 12:05:49

Whaaa? I'm missing something aren't I?

chocoluvva Wed 20-Feb-13 12:05:55

Now that it's the 21st century, do you think that working 9-5 is an acceptable way to make a living?

(Sorry, I'm trying, but my repertoire is very limited.)

Hesterton Wed 20-Feb-13 12:07:53

Bloody hell, I'd be looking for a d-i-v-o-r-c-e.

Do you work 9 till 5 OP?
You should give him 2 arms to cling to and something warm to come to.

I think you should give up work and commit solely to him after all he's just a man

kim147 Wed 20-Feb-13 12:09:13

You don't want to work 9 -5.

I think there's only one way of life. My father used to tell me that as went up to the hills and looked down on the city smog below.

Whocansay Wed 20-Feb-13 12:09:33

You must remember that the winner takes it all. Apparently.

MrsKwazii Wed 20-Feb-13 12:10:49

Well, you've got to know when to hold then, know when to fold them. Sounds like you're walking the line.

Whocansay Wed 20-Feb-13 12:11:17

I thought there was one way of life and that's your own?

chocoluvva Wed 20-Feb-13 12:11:52

Oh, smog. Not a burning ring of fire?

MrsKwazii Wed 20-Feb-13 12:12:04

I have to add though, that it sounds like you've really picked a fine time to leave him wink

MrsKwazii Wed 20-Feb-13 12:13:35

I think if it makes your brown eyes blue, you know whether you needed to leave.

Lucille is that you?

Branleuse Wed 20-Feb-13 12:13:58

What about your children, Do they like playing house, or do they not wanna?

Hang around for a while OP, it'll be raining men soon.

kim147 Wed 20-Feb-13 12:15:08

Hallulah smile

SonOfAradia Wed 20-Feb-13 12:17:13

I think you should bear in mind that wives should always be lovers, too, and run to his arms when he comes home to you.

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