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DH is surprised.

Aibu for not having any strong feelings about this?

Did he flush?

Where did he expect him to do it?

YANBU, if he's in your house and needs to go, what is he supposed to do apart from go? As long as he flushed I don't see the problem!

Is that not what the loo is for? Better there than the sink.

Oh no. A poo in the loo thread. My favourite

Just going to get a cup of tea and some biscuits.........

Could have been worse.

Oh, ffs.

Did he leave a skid mark?

Does anyone remember the Ocado delivery man pooing in someone's toilet? Ocado Customer service posted on the thread asking the Op to get in touch to discuss it.

oh ffs
cue mumsnet hysteria

I would be a little bit surprised, but then I am one of those people who can only poo at home. But I think it's more normal NOT to be surprised. As long as he flushed and didn't leave stains, and maybe opened a window then what's the harm?

Why is your dh surprised? I thought that's what toilets were for

Explain your DH's surprise Thingie.

AS long as he flushed and washed his hands I would have no strong feelings either.

If you've got to go you've got to go.

However, my dh is a plumber and works in other peoples houses, he would rather chew his own arm off than poo in someone else's loo, he would never ever go.

These threads remind me of that scene in The Help where the white woman is going on about how African-American servants should have separate toilets because they have 'different germs'.

sparklingbrook The Ocado poo in the loo thread was one of the first threads I read after joining MN. I laughed so much and knew I had come home

They remind me of the scene in Dumb and Dumber where he has the squits in the broken toilet.

I don't care what he does in my loo but I am quite excited to start a poo in the loo thread.

I have very little on today...

It was brilliant wasn't it Chottie? And when Ocado came on we were all 'nooooo you will get him into trouble'.

would you rather he pooed in your garden?

I presume you are horryfyed, and apauled and discusted by his behaviour.

And I learned a new one the other day on a thread, so I will add:

I am outrayged and think his behaviour is dispeakable

[arf].

My DP is a 'workman'. He has IBS. He feels ashamed and embarassed in sometimes having to go in customers toilets, because of some of their unreasonable reactions to what is a natural bodily function that we all do.

But it's either than or shit himself. And quite frankly I don't have the money to sluice wash his clothes every day.

Better there than the sink.

We had a mystery person poo in the sink in an old workplace of mine once. That was skanky?

Seriously, this is one of those things I never realised was an issue till I joined MN. Should we all carry those little doggy poo bags with us when we go to other people's houses?