I suspect, I may be BU but anyway?.
Firstly I need to say that me and sil aren?t close, in fact she?s generally quite rude whenever we do see each other.
So bil and sil-2b are getting married this year, saw them at Xmas asked how plans were going etc etc all seemed very laid back.
I bought my ds an outfit to wear to the wedding, got it early as last year I wanted something similar and they sold out.
Saw bil and sil 2b in Jan, and they then said they would like to buy ds an outfit to wear to the wedding, it was pointed out that he would not be expected to do anything and he was not a pageboy (ds is 2) me and dh politely declined saying we?d already got him something to wear that he?d be comfortable in.
A week later mil emails and again mentions an outfit for ds, again we politely decline saying we already have something for him.
This week bil emails to say they?ve already bought him an outfit and that they want him to be pageboy. I?m really not sure ds would be any good as a pageboy, he?s in the terrible two?s and he likes to tantrum when he doesn?t get his own way (what 2yr old doesn?t!) and he?s super clingy to me, so not sure he will want to leave my side. I think it will be less distracting for the bride and groom to just have him as a guest.
Now am I BU by saying that I?d rather he wasn?t a pageboy and that he wears what me and dh have chosen for him?
Dh thinks we?re being a bit rude by saying no, but I feel they?re being rude by ignoring us when we politely declined and going ahead and buying the outfit.
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yojojo1 · 12/02/2013 11:58
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