Right some background:
I have fallen out with some family members for their extreme racist and homophobic comments. My best friend is gay and he has been the best mate I could wish for - he and his partner are godparents to our child.
And my DH and DD are mixed race.
And to top it all DD is a donor baby (male infertility issues).
One part of my family I always got on well with (and who wants to come and stay with us in Australia for 6 months) is ranting on FB about 'bloody poufs who want to get married, it is as bad as bestiality'.
I am raging. The two are no where near the same.
Someone told him to stop being such an arse.
He reverts back with ' people should only get married who can have kids. people who can't have kids- even for medical reasons- should not be in a relationship/allowed to have kids. It's wrong'.
Because of the wider poor relationship with my family, we have told very few family members that our daughter is a donor baby...and to spare my DH receiving some hurtful comments.
So this guy who wants to stay with us has
- offended me about gay marriage
- has even more hugely offended me (without knowing) about my daughter.
WIBU to tell him he is not welcome to stay- especially as we are likely to have a couple of poufs shagging away on the lounge carpet (not) when they come to stay for 2 weeks during his anticipated visit?. And my beautiful beautiful DD- I hope she does not have to put up with shit like this in her life.
I really had to step away from FB- I will rage more once I get going.