Maybe I'll just get told to get off facebook... but... this has really upset me...
I was taken into hospital on Friday and got out yesterday. It was sudden and unexpected and I had to have a few tests, etc, like you do!
Anyway, I get out of hospital to find my family, OH and in-laws all taking about me over facebook - everything from bowel movements to blood test results.
They all have my phone number and email and could easily have contacted me that way, but these weren't just 'well wishes' this was full on conversations about things that I think are best kept private, or at least only brought up in conversation with me.
I've just had to spend an hour deleting and untagging things but most of it's been out there since Friday and I've had all sorts of messages from people I hardly ever speak to (old school friends, ex-workmates, etc) offering advice and asking questions and it's all a bit much.
I wouldn't have dreamed of putting this all over facebook if it was someone else, they all live near each other and have other ways of contacting each other (in fact most of them saw each other at least once over the weekend), and other ways of contacting me (and they knew I didn't have access to facebook in there but they never bothered calling or texting me personally), am I being unreasonable to think this is a bit disrespectful and feel a bit like my life has been invaded?
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AIBU?
To want a little bit of privacy and not have my life splashed about all over facebook?
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volvocowgirl · 30/01/2013 21:17
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