I will be straight up, I can be a pretty untidy person and am not v domesticated. I have improved since moving in with dh, although he has always done a bit more as he is a touch anal about it and also works less hours. Now I am on maternity leave and he expects me to metamorphosize into a domestic goddess. He came home from work ranting because the sitting room was a mess and saying that he was going to go on strike in a week. Today, while he was at work from 12 to 5, I have taken care of my ebf 3 wo baby, who cries if I try to put him down, cooked a big fry for my relatives and dsd, cleaned up after the fry, stripped our bed, and put on a wash of baby clothes. Not a lot maybe but it feels like it when it's hard to put the baby down! He is complaining cos the dishwasher and washing machine have yet to be emptied, the floor wasn't brushed, and the sittin room was messy with cups and biscuit wrappers - his sister was still in the middle of visiting when he arrived - and there was still wrapping from the bouncer my relatives brought. Aibu in thinking he would have a bigger problem if I went on strike given I taking care of the baby? Aibu in expecting him to still do a lot of the domestic duties? (Btw we will also have a cleaner so he's not being worked to the bone) also don't know if it's relevant but I'm on full pay during my maternity leave so its not that he has become sole breadwinner - I couldn't afford to take unpaid leave. His hours vary but he is on average out of the house from 10/11 to 4/5, so not madly long hours.
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