AIBU re: Work Kitchen Etiquette?

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StickEmUp Fri 25-Jan-13 12:19:58

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Goldmandra Fri 25-Jan-13 15:24:06

That made me shudder!!!!!

UGH!!!!

StickEmUp Fri 25-Jan-13 15:23:06

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StickEmUp Fri 25-Jan-13 15:22:22

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I feel stabby when people get in my personal space. It makes me so cross so yanbu. It doesn't take long to wait for someone to finish doing something does it?

atthewelles Fri 25-Jan-13 15:11:49

Sounds awful Stickemup I don't blame you for being pissed off.

spatchcock Fri 25-Jan-13 15:09:45

Sounding very reasonable now with all the shouting, OP! smile

Goldmandra Fri 25-Jan-13 15:07:42

*If I REALLY REALLY wanted to be awkward I would have asked him why I couldnt nearly feel his penis against me

HE WAS THAT CLOSE*

Ugh! I hope that wasn't why he was doing it! I had a boss who used to look for excuses to squeeze through gaps against women and invaded their body space at every opportunity. Vile man. We all knew what he was up to and these days I would be very vocal about calling everyone's attention to the fact he was doing it although these days I don't think he'd bother anyway!

StickEmUp Fri 25-Jan-13 14:25:37

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Goldmandra Fri 25-Jan-13 14:23:36

I would just put everything down and barge past them out of the kitchen saying "I'm sorry. Was I in your way? Let me know when you've finished."

atthewelles Fri 25-Jan-13 14:13:00

Why is saying 'I'll just be a sec' being difficult? Quite a normal thing to say in a cramped space I would have thought. People who can't wait for a couple of seconds for something they want are the difficult ones, I would have thought.

DreamingOfTheMaldives Fri 25-Jan-13 14:07:56

Why couldn't you just pass them the glass? The fact that you said "I'll just be a sec" shows that you had no intention of passing them a glass and were going to make them wait until you had finished. They obviously thought you were being difficult about it, making them wait rather than pass them the glass, so decided to lean over and get it.

StickEmUp Fri 25-Jan-13 13:17:02

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WingDefence Fri 25-Jan-13 13:14:45

*a loo cubicle

WingDefence Fri 25-Jan-13 13:14:22

YANBU - The kitchen on my floor is absolutely tiny too - probably smaller than the size of a look cubicle and just enough room for a sink, little fridge, a tiny bit of work surface, the little hot water machine and cupboards above.

Saying that, most people wait in the corridor just the person in front has finished but in your situation just step back/forward into them or tread on their toe and then say 'oh sorry, but there isn't enough room for two people in here, is there? hmm'

I'm so glad I work from home now!

EldritchCleavage Fri 25-Jan-13 13:05:24

Well, I don't think YABU. I don't like that kind of space invasion. Or impatience.

My bugbear is people who come right around my desk and stand bang next to my chair so I am trapped in the corner and they are in my personal space staring at my screen. Just stand opposite me in front of the desk or perch on the widow sill to the side like a normal person. Is it telling that only men do it?

StickEmUp Fri 25-Jan-13 13:03:52

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StickEmUp Fri 25-Jan-13 13:01:46

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atthewelles Fri 25-Jan-13 13:01:39

You sound like you need to de-stress a bit Gin. It's one minute

GinAndSlimlinePlease Fri 25-Jan-13 12:57:43

gosh, 1 minute to make a cuppa? That's ages.

I barely have time for a cup of tea at work, so I do rush in, fill mug, dump teabag, rush out. I wouldn't push anyone out the way but I might get a little annoyed if they took a minute for One cup of tea.

You're well within your rights to get annoyed when people shove you or hurt you. but maybe you are spending a little long in there?

atthewelles Fri 25-Jan-13 12:56:37

Also, this idea that if you're making yourself a cup of tea you should offer to make one for everyone else in the place would drive me mad. You'd never get anything else done.

CooEeeEldridge Fri 25-Jan-13 12:55:22

YANBU, BUT! I think it may be you (and me!) to some extent? Our work kitchen sounds similar, and I wait untill it seems that everyone's done their stuff and go in, I use it as a tiny break and bit of respite from the office, so get massively oissed off when people come barging in! Just wait a sec!!!! If only every on was like us and waited their turn eh op?! wink

But I can see that other people want a drink, and they WANT IT NOW!!

redexpat Fri 25-Jan-13 12:54:29

I don't think YABU. Personal space, like you said.

StickEmUp Fri 25-Jan-13 12:49:44

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Backtobedlam Fri 25-Jan-13 12:46:29

The trouble is people probably don't realise you're in there until they are up from their desk, so they either look a bit if a tit by sitting back down for 30secs then going back up, or they hang around you and wait/get on with what they want.

StickEmUp Fri 25-Jan-13 12:43:11

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