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Dh taking photos of our dinners AIBU to be pissed off?

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SocialButterfly · 22/01/2013 20:06

Dh has started taking photos of the dinners I serve up. He posts them on Facebook and then his mates, who all think their amateur chefs, comment on them.

This has pissed me off but I have just shrugged it off. Now last night we had a scrape the bottom of the freezer tea as it is payday on Wednesday. It was a Cornish pasty, beans and cheese. Not healthy I know but all we had left. He posted it and an ex girlfriend commented that it was "heart attack on a plate".

Now he tells me that he is going to tag is ex girlfriend on the photo every day so she can comment on how healthy it is. This really annoyed me and I said its bad enough that your mates judge me, now you want an ex girlfriend to judge as well.

He now has the hump and says I'm being over sensitive.

AIBU?

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revolvenotevolve · 22/01/2013 20:07

Yanbu.

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mazzi2fly · 22/01/2013 20:08

Yanbu

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EchoBitch · 22/01/2013 20:08

Stop cooking him dinner.

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Littlefish · 22/01/2013 20:08

If he takes the photos, stop cooking for him.

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ValentineWiggins · 22/01/2013 20:09

Stop cooking for him.

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PhallicGiraffe · 22/01/2013 20:09

Let him cook if he wants them on Facebook.

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QOD · 22/01/2013 20:09

Easy. Stop cooking HIS dinner, the fucker.

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bamboostalks · 22/01/2013 20:09

What a total prick. It is actually impossible to believe there are people as truly nasty as this. It is real misfortune to be married to one of them. Tell him to stop now.

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plentyofgrowingroom · 22/01/2013 20:09

YANBU. I'd tell him to do the cooking if he wants to post the photos on Facebook!

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Numberlock · 22/01/2013 20:09

People aren't even bothering to put any serious effort into these ridiculous wind-up threads anymore.

0/10 OP.

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TurkeyDino · 22/01/2013 20:09

He needs to get a life. Really.

Yanbu though, that would piss me off immensely and I would be forced to write 'fuck off' and other pleasantries in a cranberry jus on his plate.

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TheCraicDealer · 22/01/2013 20:09

I'd put a tin of tomato soup and a tin opener on his plate tomorrow night and tell him to go mad.

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pjmama · 22/01/2013 20:09

Let him make his own dinner until he stops being so bloody childish.

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bongobaby · 22/01/2013 20:09

How rude of him. Tell him to cook his own dinner, yanbu.

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LesBOFerables · 22/01/2013 20:09

Does he take pictures of your burnt cakes?

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MrsWembley · 22/01/2013 20:10

Yep, stop cooking for him, he's being an arse.

HTH!Grin

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TheOneWithTheHair · 22/01/2013 20:10

YANBU. Besides it's bloody boring to put it on FB everyday!!

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revolvenotevolve · 22/01/2013 20:10

In fact -take a photo of him after you have sex every time. Post on FB and rate his performance -oh make sure you tag his ex girlfriend as she might want to comment.
(Disclaimer: Dont really do this )

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MrsRajeshKoothrappali · 22/01/2013 20:10

Awwww, isn't that nice of her! Hmm

Perhaps she can cook his tea for him from now on.

I'd be hacked off too.

Seriously, stop cooking for him. Or give him a plate of lettice every day.

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HecateWhoopass · 22/01/2013 20:10

Yup. Agree with the others.

Let tonight be the last time you cook anything for him.

You don't actually HAVE to.

He wants to be a plank, he can cook his own food.

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SarkyPants · 22/01/2013 20:10

Start posting summaries of his sexual performances on Facebook and ask his ex to comment on those :)

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RuchedCurtain · 22/01/2013 20:10

Does he ever cook dinner?

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coldcupoftea · 22/01/2013 20:11

I hate pictures of food on facebook, it's so dull.

Why not start taking unflattering pictures of him first thing in the morning for all your friends to comment?

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McNewPants2013 · 22/01/2013 20:11

Stop cooking for him, then you take the photo put them on Facebook tag him on there with a comment like look what you could have had.

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SocialButterfly · 22/01/2013 20:11

This is not a wind up I promise. He is obsessed with his iPhone and it never leaves his hand, he takes photos of everything.

I think I knew I wasn't BU but am sitting upstairs quietly fuming and needed someone else to tell me as well.

Thanks to those that believe me and answered.

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