DD 3 is now 13 months and still doesn't sleep through. She wakes twice and both times I give her a light feed and she goes back to sleep. To be honest it isn't such a big deal and I deal with it fast. But I AM tired. All the time. I also work and deal with the other 2 kids and although I have great help at home, the buck stops with me for anything to do with the kids, school, house or social side of our live. I realise I am just one of most women who do all this as well as work but sometimes I would like a hand at night... Or at least an hours lay in on the weekend (1 day allowed each) without paying the price later.
To complicate matters he is a type 1 diabetic and is often horribly moody as a result of his low blood sugar. Sometimes it is more than moody and he is frankly vile but claims he can't help it so it isn't his fault. Furthermore, he always seems to have a hypo whenever there is a stressful moment or I need a hand. He also has a bad back and is very stiff in the morning and he says this too makes him moody.
DD is unwell this weekend and I haven't slept more than an hour or 2 here and there for 48 hours .... He didn't get up once in the night or offer and then was annoyed when the big kids woke him at 8 after knowing I haven't slept for days. All weekend he has been out and about with the other kids leaving me house bound. I am fine because I like being home and Dd3 does really need me right now and is even when I'll a pleasure to hang with, but a little recognition rather than nastiness would be nice. I can't remember the last time he was genuinely thoughtful towards me. I am a good wife and run his house, life and everything seamlessly in addition to my own business and ask relatively little of him. Am I being a witch to give it back a little? He says I am.
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SweetLikeChocolate · 13/01/2013 12:27
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