to ask if you use the toilet in front of your partner?

(112 Posts)
CharlLaneoxo Thu 10-Jan-13 23:44:03

(Read a comment on my previous thread and it got me thinking)

I always lock the bathroom door, but I think that's just a habit because I lock it even when there's no one else in the house.

I would possibly wee in front of oh but never have done.

As for anything else - hell no.

He's pissed with me in the same room countless times but I draw the line at him having a shit whilst I'm brushing my teeth, or in the bath etc.

In a way I think it can almost kiss the romance.

Kytti Sun 13-Jan-13 07:56:06

mrsjay All the faces wink because I am THAT incredulous! I'd rather do it alone (I'd LOVE to do it alone without a DC with me) but I'm genuinely AMAZED that people are so horrified about being caught in the act / seeing OH do it / being seen doing a poo.

Yes. I am shocked that you lot don't and express such utter distaste! I think it's pretty funny.

So there. wink

moomoomar Fri 11-Jan-13 19:00:35

I don't think anyone ever shuts our toilet or bathroom door apart from when DH has a poo. Don't know why as he stinks the whole house out anyway. I never shut the toilet door. It's tiny and I'd have no where to go if the door got stuck!

Stoneinwelly Fri 11-Jan-13 18:52:17

I love to creep up on dh mid-wee and goose him when he can't move. He sometimes comes in and announces, proudly, after a big poo" you'd better call the coastguard!"

Yes to wees, no to poos except one time when I was ill and he had to stay with me in case I fainted (he had carried me to the toilet). No to changing sanitary stuff in front of him either.

shock at kissmy's acquaintance, shaking off ewwww

Lafaminute Fri 11-Jan-13 18:32:58

Not if I can help it but we have 5 loos shock in our house and whenever I find myself in one I have the whole posse behind me. Apparently my right to pee in private went out the window with "I do", also spontaneous family meeting tend to happen whenever I am in the shower. No-one else in my family has any idea of bathroom privacy and all enjoy an audience. They think it must have been accidental whenever I lock the door and keep banging it and re-trying the handle until I eventually emerge. AAAAGH!

Married 25 years here and I would never wee or poo in front of dh.. nor would he infront of me!

The only exception being the time I accidentally poisoned myself (don't ask blush) and was uncontrollably ejecting from both ends while passed out on the bathroom floor. Then dh bathed me and cleaned up the mess, bless him!

Spuddybean Fri 11-Jan-13 17:53:34

i'm going to take this thread to a whole new level and am fully prepared for the shock faces...but DH and i even wee in the baths we share with each other... smile

HoHoHoNoYouDont Fri 11-Jan-13 17:05:31

I would feel comfortable with farting, weeing, changing tampon but think pooing is private time. Mainly because I create some right stinkers which I'd never wish on anyone grin

VivaLeBeaver Fri 11-Jan-13 17:02:46

I do. I never even bother shutting the bathroom door anymore.

Bunbaker Fri 11-Jan-13 17:01:41

There is no way we would ever buy a house with only one loo. I have IBS so two loos is a necessity.

villagegossip Fri 11-Jan-13 14:04:49

No way would I poo or change a tampon infront of DP <boak> Have never wee'd with him in the same bathroom either.

We do wee in bushes when out on dog walks though - somehow that seems to be o.k! grin

diddl Fri 11-Jan-13 12:09:38

Yep, mum & sister here too.

When I visit my sister she´ll sometimes go for a shower whilst I´m there & I go in for a chat!

KitCat26 Fri 11-Jan-13 11:43:26

Yep, once and only once in exceptional circumstances.

The day after I had DD1, I was still in hospital, in a proper state and needed his help to walk and have a bath (midwives disappeared), and then I needed the toilet (in same room), bleeding, stitched and scared I might split into two again <boak>.

Crinkle77 Fri 11-Jan-13 11:40:52

Sorry meant to say I will go in front of mum and sisters too if they want to come in the bathroom for anything

Crinkle77 Fri 11-Jan-13 11:40:18

I have wee'd in front of my boydriend and am not will go in front of my mum and sisters. Not bothered. Prob not a number 2 though

higgle Fri 11-Jan-13 11:35:57

We wee in front of each other - DH brought me my morning coffee into the bathroom and gave me a little kiss as I was having my morning wee this morning. Poo, no.

MrsBungleBear Fri 11-Jan-13 11:30:19

Doesn't bother me in the slightest. We pee infront of each other. Don't tend to poo but wouldn't bother me.

No air of mystery between me and Dh!

pigletmania Fri 11-Jan-13 11:28:47

No some things should be kept private

hamdangle Fri 11-Jan-13 11:27:57

believe. doh!

hamdangle Fri 11-Jan-13 11:27:16

I can't beleive it's only OHs that announce their poo intentions! I always inform my DP and I fully intend to use 'feed the toilet' (thanks Fruitowl) as it's even better than 'dropping the kids off at the pool'.

After pregnancy, labour and childbirth, there isn't much mystery left in our relationship but DP still fancies the pants off me and it certainly hasn't been the kiss of death for romance. Saying that, on our first date I was nervous and got so drunk I was sick in front of him and farted at the same time! I was mortified and avoided him for weeks. When I saw him next he looked at me and I knew he still fancied me. I thought, 'this one's a keeper.'

MrsKeithRichards Fri 11-Jan-13 11:26:04

That reminds me Pam he put a pessary in for me last year, he knows down there better than I do!

Pigsmummy Fri 11-Jan-13 11:25:02

No and I was a bit upset that after my DD the midwife put me, hubby and newborn into a big bathroom and I had to wee into a jug in front of my husband! It was grim.

PessaryPam Fri 11-Jan-13 11:18:25

Poo face Bertie, ROFL!!!

DH & I do pee in front of each other but I draw the line at pooing. I couldn't breath anywhere near DH having a shit, it's truly vile. I can't understand why he stinks so much more than I do when we eat the same food? And is greater quantity too. (Expect that is a clue, he is not fully digesting).

bedmonster Fri 11-Jan-13 11:12:30

Wee yes, NEVER a poo. Because a wee doesn't stink of, well, shit. And being honest, why would you really want to smell another grown humans shit? It's pretty unpleasant.
DP has a shower in the morning and I go in for a wee, and if im having a bath he comes in for a wee.
I don't even push the door closed when im having a wee, but for a poo I at least shove it so it's nearly closed!

Bosgrove Fri 11-Jan-13 10:59:31

I try not to, but both him and the kids follow me in....almost every time.

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