to ask if you use the toilet in front of your partner?

(112 Posts)
CharlLaneoxo Thu 10-Jan-13 23:44:03

(Read a comment on my previous thread and it got me thinking)

I always lock the bathroom door, but I think that's just a habit because I lock it even when there's no one else in the house.

I would possibly wee in front of oh but never have done.

As for anything else - hell no.

He's pissed with me in the same room countless times but I draw the line at him having a shit whilst I'm brushing my teeth, or in the bath etc.

In a way I think it can almost kiss the romance.

diddl Fri 11-Jan-13 12:09:38

Yep, mum & sister here too.

When I visit my sister she´ll sometimes go for a shower whilst I´m there & I go in for a chat!

villagegossip Fri 11-Jan-13 14:04:49

No way would I poo or change a tampon infront of DP <boak> Have never wee'd with him in the same bathroom either.

We do wee in bushes when out on dog walks though - somehow that seems to be o.k! grin

Bunbaker Fri 11-Jan-13 17:01:41

There is no way we would ever buy a house with only one loo. I have IBS so two loos is a necessity.

VivaLeBeaver Fri 11-Jan-13 17:02:46

I do. I never even bother shutting the bathroom door anymore.

HoHoHoNoYouDont Fri 11-Jan-13 17:05:31

I would feel comfortable with farting, weeing, changing tampon but think pooing is private time. Mainly because I create some right stinkers which I'd never wish on anyone grin

Spuddybean Fri 11-Jan-13 17:53:34

i'm going to take this thread to a whole new level and am fully prepared for the shock faces...but DH and i even wee in the baths we share with each other... smile

Married 25 years here and I would never wee or poo in front of dh.. nor would he infront of me!

The only exception being the time I accidentally poisoned myself (don't ask blush) and was uncontrollably ejecting from both ends while passed out on the bathroom floor. Then dh bathed me and cleaned up the mess, bless him!

Lafaminute Fri 11-Jan-13 18:32:58

Not if I can help it but we have 5 loos shock in our house and whenever I find myself in one I have the whole posse behind me. Apparently my right to pee in private went out the window with "I do", also spontaneous family meeting tend to happen whenever I am in the shower. No-one else in my family has any idea of bathroom privacy and all enjoy an audience. They think it must have been accidental whenever I lock the door and keep banging it and re-trying the handle until I eventually emerge. AAAAGH!

Yes to wees, no to poos except one time when I was ill and he had to stay with me in case I fainted (he had carried me to the toilet). No to changing sanitary stuff in front of him either.

shock at kissmy's acquaintance, shaking off ewwww

Stoneinwelly Fri 11-Jan-13 18:52:17

I love to creep up on dh mid-wee and goose him when he can't move. He sometimes comes in and announces, proudly, after a big poo" you'd better call the coastguard!"

moomoomar Fri 11-Jan-13 19:00:35

I don't think anyone ever shuts our toilet or bathroom door apart from when DH has a poo. Don't know why as he stinks the whole house out anyway. I never shut the toilet door. It's tiny and I'd have no where to go if the door got stuck!

Kytti Sun 13-Jan-13 07:56:06

mrsjay All the faces wink because I am THAT incredulous! I'd rather do it alone (I'd LOVE to do it alone without a DC with me) but I'm genuinely AMAZED that people are so horrified about being caught in the act / seeing OH do it / being seen doing a poo.

Yes. I am shocked that you lot don't and express such utter distaste! I think it's pretty funny.

So there. wink

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