My husband deletes Internet history, text messages, talks to his exes, tells his ex wife he still loves her and he says he does that so that she will come back to this country wit their son (she moved to get away from him) he calls me names when we argue, he tells me I never clean (I do and I get sick of him not doing anything so I stop for a day so he sees how much I do) he tells me I'm lazy ( we have 5 kids mind u so obviously I don't have time to be lazy) if I ask him why he treats me the way he does or deletes things its always the same answer "your controlling and you need to know everything" I don't think he is cheating as he works with my brother so they start and finish at same times and he is always home it's just his attitude, he is African I am Australian, could it be cultural or is he just an ass?
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