DSis likes me to check with her before buying stuff for DNephew. Fair enough, he may already have stuff, someone else may be getting him the same thing, he might not like it etc. I have no issue with that.
She also likes to confer pre-Christmas on what I am getting dd (same age as DNephew), to ensure that the two kids get roughly the same amount, and to agree whether there are certain things are or aren't allowed etc. Again, I have no issue with that.
However, while I'm not the most organised person in the world, I don't like to leave all my shopping until the last minute. DSis, on the other hand, is one of those people who does most of her shopping on Christmas Eve while I entertain her DS. Fine if she wants to do it that way, but I find it really stressful if I leave it too late, so I have been trying to contact her for the last 3+ weeks to check if I can go ahead and get the stuff that I have in mind.
It can be hard to find time to talk when DCs are not around, as we both work FT as well, so texted her a few times suggesting times or asking when she would be free to talk. No response. Got through on the phone once, she said she'd ring me back. She didn't.
I am reluctant to go ahead and buy anything for DNephew as I did this once before in the face of similar difficulties. She told me that I couldn't give him the gift I had purchased as she has suggested the same idea to someone else, and that I should have waited to speak to her before buying anything. Well, I tried.
I am finding this quite annoying now, but perhaps I've got it wrong and I am just being a real pain in the arse to keep hassling her? Genuine perspective required as I don't want to be a grumpy bitch. AIBU?
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Jinsei · 12/12/2012 23:08
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