to feel guilty about sleeping with someone else's husband

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in a dream? Sounds ridiculous I know, but I just had this dream. I don't fancy the man at all, do other people have dreams like this?

NomNomDePlumPudding Mon 10-Dec-12 17:41:43

it's always someone you wouldn't touch with a barge pole, isn't it? i had a dream about a woman that i hated when i was at college - i still remember, and it's now thousands of years later, the confusion and mortification of meeting her soon after it. (and when i say i hated her, it was a dislike untroubled by anything freudian, she was just a bitch).

thebody Mon 10-Dec-12 16:48:51

Bloody hell!!!!! Thought this was a juicy for real thread op!!!

MrsToddsShortcut Mon 10-Dec-12 16:43:48

Kitchen, I sympathise. I dreamt I was having an affair with David Cameron. And I really really really fancied him in the dream confused

<reaches for brain bleach to eradicate hideous dream>

KitchenandJumble Mon 10-Dec-12 16:27:04

Some of you are so lucky dreaming about Barack Obama. Or even Fidel Castro, at least in a younger incarnation he was quite attractive in that scruffy camouflage gear. I, on the other hand, once had a dream about sleeping with George W. Bush (back when he was still president). It makes me shudder just thinking about it. And not in a good way. He is truly one of the least appealing men in the world on every level. He was quite a good lover in my dream, though. grin

LalyRawr Mon 10-Dec-12 15:08:09

GreenyEyes I did the exact same thing about a month ago! I was really bitchy with OH and he obviously asked why, I went to explain and then realised 'Oh shit, it was a dream!'

Now whenever I'm angry he says 'Did that actually happen or were you dreaming again?'

MrsTerrysChocolateOrange Mon 10-Dec-12 15:06:06

This is so weird. Last night I dreamed I cheated on my ex-DH with a friend of my ex-BF. Goodness knows where DH was in all this, must have been a dream from before I met him. I wish the sex had been a) good and b) with someone I find attractive.

cuillereasoupe Mon 10-Dec-12 15:02:48

I had one with Fidel Castro blush

still, better than Cameron I suppose!

Arcticwaffle Mon 10-Dec-12 14:59:59

I've also had a dreamtime relationship with Barack Obama (along with half the world's population, it seems).

And last nght I dreamt about developments with my colleague, which is awkward cos we have our work night out tonight.

ClippedPhoenix Mon 10-Dec-12 14:54:24

Well I had it off with a whole rugby team the other week greedy grin

ChaoticforlifenotjustChristmas Mon 10-Dec-12 14:48:10

Well at least you lot get to have sex hmm

The last few times I've had a 'sex' dream it stops just as we get to the sex bit, either I wake up or something happens to stop it.

<stamps foot>

snot fair.

VerlaineChasedRimbauds Mon 10-Dec-12 14:34:12

I had an affair with Barack Obama grin in my dream. I confessed to my DP who seemed rather upset and asked"why?" to which I responded: "He's a very natty dresser". "But it's just a suit" wailed DP.

I told my DP about the dream, which he did find funny fortunately.

On the following Valentine's Day (not in a dream) I had an unsigned card with a question mark on it. The envelope came with an American stamp and a presidential seal grin.

A couple of nights ago I had a very complicated dream where I had had an affair with an ex, then woke up from the dream (except I was still asleep) and spent ages trying to decide whether or not it had been a dream, including discussing it with a friend. I was relieved (and exhausted) when I finally woke up!

The same night I woke myself up trying to catch a baby (I sat up in bed and flung out my arm) who had been perched precariously on a work surface.

Perhaps I should examine my diet.

Notmadeofrib Mon 10-Dec-12 14:30:06

I have a dream obsession it would seem with a guy I went to school with (looong time ago). I'm always getting off with/shagging him in my dreams. Weird thing is I couldn't have cared less for him when I was is school.

Why do we always have sexy dreams with mingers?!

I've said this before but all my sex dreams have been with awful people but then I dreamt about Tom Hardy and we played on the xbox?! confused

baublesandbaileys Mon 10-Dec-12 14:20:14

the hottest dream sex is always with the ones you find least attractive in real life, they you wake up feeling very confused! I do anyway!

Its always with celebs I really dislike and don't find attractive but in my dreams it's the best sex ever!

I never have sex dreams about anyone I actually fancy!

AlienRefucksLooksLikeSnow Mon 10-Dec-12 14:17:32

I slept with Steve Mcdonald out of coronation street, then that twat Dan off of daybreak, in dreams, I hasten to add!god knows what all that means?!!

quesadilla Mon 10-Dec-12 14:16:26

If my experience is in any way representative then its totally normal and nothing to worry about. In the past year I've dreamed about having sex with a) a former colleague who is gay and not particularly attractive b) my DH's brother who I can't stand c) a random guy who I work with but barely know to nod to and d) the father of a schoolfriend who I haven't seen for over 20 years (and would now be well into his seventies).

I've never had a sexy dream about anyone I actually fancied in my life... its always totally random people and guaranteed to make you feel excruciatingly embarrassed if/when you next see them.

Filibear Mon 10-Dec-12 14:15:45

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ToriaHosannaHeadacheChelsea Mon 10-Dec-12 13:55:00

I dreamed I was having an affair with someone DH went to uni with. In the dream I clearly remember sitting on our sofa with him kissing my neck.

The next morning's breakfast was awkward given he was staying with us for the weekend...

kakapo Mon 10-Dec-12 12:36:47

Hahaha Worra! Especially the stroking...

I do it all the time.

I also dreamt DH was cheating on me and would have me back and it was so angry with him for days in real life as it was so realistic!

scaevola Mon 10-Dec-12 12:31:47

Dreams are random and beynod your control.

The feeling of guilt is a fraction what would accrue if you were to do this in RL. Worth remembering how this troubled you if you do ever find yourself put in temptation.

Indith Mon 10-Dec-12 12:29:00

I have had guilt free sex with various men in my dreams grin. I often do the thing of being furious wuth dh though and waking up in a strop with him.

freddiefrog Mon 10-Dec-12 12:28:08

I had a really fruity one about my neighbour's husband a few months ago and I still can't look him in the eye

They're mostly really weird and random though

Theicingontop Mon 10-Dec-12 12:25:33

GreenyEyes I do the same thing. I tell OH and he apologises on behalf of his dreamself grin

rainbow2000 Mon 10-Dec-12 12:22:23

I had a dream teh other night about having a 3some with Rhona and Laurel out of Emmerdale,i was mortified.blush

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