My friend (A) turns 30 in a few weeks but having a surprise party for her in two weeks time.
While at another friends, friend A mentioned that her husband had a text in his phone about an DJ, and she was wondering why. We all played it down, and didn't say anything other than taking the piss for reading her husbands messages.
I text the husband and said to forward the message to my dh (both are close) and then delete message and too us was the end of it.
However friend B had asked friends A sister about how awkward it was and funny, when friend A was listening to the conversation.
Friend A now thinks I cannot be trusted and is now going to distance herself from me, and is now ignoring my messages.
Now I can see friends A point as to her she thinks I cannot be trusted and thinks I was shit stirring and getting her into trouble by telling her husband she was readings his messages.
And I now can't say anything as the party is a surprise.
I'm pissed off at friend B, as she has a history of gossiping and why she needed to even speak about it is beyond me, expecially in hearing distance of friend A.
I'm pissed off and really thinking of telling my friend of the party and also telling friend B she's a dick and a twat!!!
And not to do all the catering and sweetie trees and decorate the hall etc... And just tell the husband he's on his own.
I've text friend 3 times now, and still no reply!!!
Juvenile, trivial... Yes definitely, but blooming hell try and do something nice and all hell breaks loose and you cannot say anything and have to be the bad guy until next week!!! I just hope she will forgive me.
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AltinkumATEalltheTurkey · 06/12/2012 19:40
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