Good friend of mine is having her first dc in less than 2 months. She has two older sisters who have decided to throw her party/baby shower as a surprise.
One good friend (who is also invited, she is going to Godmother) has forwarded on to me a text saying that the sister is asking for donations towards the food and decorations for the shower.
I found it rude that I wasn't asked by the sister herself and that I'm expected to contribute too as it sounds like its compulsory. If its not paid before the party then we should give her the money when we get there (shes hosting it at her house).
We were told that we didn't have to bring gifts if we didn't want to, but obviously I am going to get her a gift.
She is a good friend and I want her to have a good baby shower but why should I and all the guests be expected to pay for it?
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to not want to pay for my friend to have a party!?
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charlmarascoxo · 06/12/2012 19:16
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