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Pickles77 Sun 25-Nov-12 15:23:09

Regarding DDs twunt of a father 

He has put no effort in with DD and just likes to scream at me. 
As I refused to drive DD around the country today he hasn't seen her but he says he isn't missing anything. I'm just a bitch but his maintainence wouldn't even get me to and from what her wants!
He wants her all weekend next weekend . Am I being unreasonable to say no?
DD doesn't know him, yet he says she doesn't know me.
He's never changed a nappy and he isn't very good with her and to be frank I don't trust him.
I'm so upset on Dd's behalf. She doesn't deserve this and he doesn't realise you don't get these days back.
His time off is precious apparently, he wants it to himself sometimes. I don't ever get time off but apparently this is what I wanted.

AIBU to be sad for DD?
AIBU to stop him seeing DD until he steps up?
AIBU for being so angry angry

Pickles77 Sun 09-Dec-12 19:44:51

PRomise I'm on it another meeting with family law expert weds.
Made me laugh he goes oh ill come and see her in the week I was like we will see. I'm leaving now.
And off I went x

ATouchOfStuffing Sun 09-Dec-12 19:53:56

Saw this on another thread and it struck a chord with me - may help explain your feelings for him
victimsofpsychopaths.wordpress.com/traumatic-bonding/

Pickles77 Sun 09-Dec-12 20:01:51

Great help grin thanks

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