Surely DH is BU not me?

(64 Posts)
Jelly15 Thu 15-Nov-12 20:02:59

In over twenty years of marriage I can count the times I have been for a night out without DH on one hand. DH has never stopped me I just don't have that many friends who socialise without their DH's

DH and the other hand playes pool twice a week and drinks aroung 5 or 6 pints a those nights. He has been away a few times on weekends with his mates. I suppose I envy him his social life a bit.

I have been invited to a hen night soon and I may need a lift the mile or so home from the bus stop, no taxis in my semi rural area. DH is cross that I have asked him to pick me up if the bus won't make a detour as he was hoping to go out to a football match and have a few drinks himself.

A big row followed and I said he was BU but he totally believes I am.

I would appriciate your honest replies and I plan on showing then to him, if it his him who is BU.

Shutupanddrive Thu 15-Nov-12 20:10:15

HE is being vvvvvvvvvu!
HTH smile

smogwod Thu 15-Nov-12 20:13:01

He is definitely BU!

squoosh Thu 15-Nov-12 20:13:38

shock

He is being AMAZINGLY U.

Does he want you to walk home in the rural pitch dark. Bloody cheek.

trixie123 Thu 15-Nov-12 20:16:06

I think you know the answer to this. Show him this thread about an hour from now. And can I be the first?? LTB grin

Jelly15 Thu 15-Nov-12 20:17:23

He said no one has every been attacked walking home late at night around here and implied that they wouldn't want to attack me as I am over forty and overweight.

buggerama Thu 15-Nov-12 20:18:04

Obviously hes being a nob

cardibach Thu 15-Nov-12 20:18:12

He is BU if there really are no taxis. Howver, I live in the back of beyond, rural rural not semi rural, and I can get one if I try. Is there no way of getting one?

LadyBeagle Thu 15-Nov-12 20:18:29

Utterly selfish bastard.

NatashaBee Thu 15-Nov-12 20:19:12

He is being unreasonable if there's no taxis where you live. (where on earth doesn't have taxis? Never even heard of that before). It sounds like your night out is a one off special occasion whereas his is just a regular weekly thing - you should get to go out for a change!

buggerama Thu 15-Nov-12 20:19:12

and for saying that about no one wanting to attack you cos your over 40 and over weight, hes a selfish fucking dickhead

iklboo Thu 15-Nov-12 20:19:16

Book yourself into a swanky hotel & make him pay for it instead.

EuroShagmore Thu 15-Nov-12 20:19:50

Hmmm, it's a mile. Can't you stick some sensible shoes in your bag and walk?

izzyishavingababyAGAIN Thu 15-Nov-12 20:20:59

He's a knob dh would be picking me up from venue.

Jelly15 Thu 15-Nov-12 20:23:26

In all probability the bus driver will make a detour but it is not guarranteed.

OlderNotWiser Thu 15-Nov-12 20:24:47

He isn't being very kind or considerate given you hardly ever go out. Would it kill him to pick you up? He is BVU.

catgirl1976 Thu 15-Nov-12 20:24:51

He is BU and selfish

As for his comment about your age and weight shock angry

What a bell end

I hope you pull some nice and run off into the sunset with him

LadyBeagle Thu 15-Nov-12 20:26:37

No taxis round here.
It's not the point anyway, Op wants one night out compared to the dozens that her DH has.
And he hasn't even got the grace to say, go on, enjoy yourself, I'll pick you up.
Op, this is the start, and I hope this is the start of you getting out more.
I repeat, selfish bastard.

Davinaaddict Thu 15-Nov-12 20:28:10

I thought he was being selfish before your second post. Now I think he's a bit of a twat actually. I like iklboo's suggestion grin

KenLeeeeeee Thu 15-Nov-12 20:29:04

He was being a bit U about giving you a lift, but the remark about your age and weight has propelled him right into new heights of extreme U-ness and general twattiness.

He said no one has every been attacked walking home late at night around here and implied that they wouldn't want to attack me as I am over forty and overweight.

I assume you're married to some sort of oil painting?

You'd said you're showing this thread to him?

DH; you're a twat.

MammaTJ Thu 15-Nov-12 20:29:18

Nice to know he thinks you being over 40 and overweight will keep you safe.......................this woman was well over 40

MissVerinder Thu 15-Nov-12 20:34:13

He is BU.

Selfish oaf.

LivingThings Thu 15-Nov-12 20:38:21

if its only a mile cant he walk there meet you and then walk you home?

EuroShagmore Thu 15-Nov-12 20:38:52

OK, I was on the fence, but the comment in your second post makes him an uber tvvat.

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