To not buy a poppy(493 Posts)
Why is it more important to remember the death of a soldier who died fighting for the country (or so he believed) than the death of every other person who has died?
What about all the others who have died helping others? Were their lives less important? Or the little old lady who died in hospital at the age of 97, she didn't kill any Germans, or rescue people. She lived her life, but doesn't that count?
I think poppys glorify war and therefore murder, so I will not be buying one.
There's no way the OP is ex-forces. But if she is, it makes her position even harder to understand.
I've only just clocked the OP's post saying she's ex-forces. I don't believe it either. Or if it is true,she got booted out and has an axe to grind. Or maybe she is just a bitter woman with an ex in the forces.
Rememberance Day isn't about how much you like the Army,Navy or RAF.
My Grandfather was in the Army for 40 years. They treated him fucking terribly in the end. Really badly. I don't think he ever really got over it. But that sadness never got in the way of respecting and commemorating his fellow servicemen on Rememberance Day.
I wear my poppy with pride to show respect for our Armed Forces past and present, and the sacrifices they have made to allow us the freedom we have today.
Whatever your views are about war in general the poppy is there to show respect, not to glorify it or push your views.
Op, your post has made me sick. You disgust me.
You know, OP, your attitude does not surprise me.
All I ask is that you look up why many people wear their poppies with pride.
Everyone has a right to choose which charity to support.
Before I get shot down, I do wear a Poppy. I do go to Remembrance. My family is military, my father was a military man, his father, my mothers father.
If the OP is ex-military then I retract my statement that her attitude doesn't surprise me. It does now.
I hope you never lose anyone you love the way that I have OP, I really do.
I stood this morning in a supermarket at 11 and thought about the many people who'd suffered, many who had no choice or probably didn't fully understand why they were asked to do what they did. I do not understand how anyone can't summon up even a shred of empathy or sadness when confronted with these realities. But every year I have a problem. I grew up on the Falls Road in Belfast during the height of the Troubles. I hated the place. I hated the sectarianism and hatred that seeped through society. I was so glad to leave it behind 25 years ago and make a new and better life elsewhere. But we are all products of our experience and there are things I can't forget. Like the time I was deliberately slammed off my bike by an army jeep, dislocating my shoulder, for having the audacity to be cycling home. Or the countless occasions when I was called a Fenian bastard or fucker or cunt when I was stopped by a foot patrol to be questioned about my movements. Or every time I see my friend Eamon, a harmless lad who like me had no time for the IRA or any of that shit, who was set upon one night on his way home from a pub by four soldiers who beat him almost to death, hitting him with the butts of their rifles, kicking his head in with their army boots, leaving him brain-damaged. No prosecution ever. So every year I have a problem buying a poppy, because it might support them. We should respect those who've suffered, but please don't feel that not buying a poppy is always disrespectful. Life's never simple.
Lest we forget, Icetip.
It's so sad that otherwise normal human beings can be brutalised this way, by war and fear and hatred. No doubt these soldiers had it in them to be brave and self-sacrificing in war - so why such violent, vindictive bullies in occupation?
Someone at some point has to break the cycle.
Soldiers may well have to kill in the line of duty, but they don't have to rape do they? But they do, in huge, huge numbers. Including rape of their own female colleagues.
I'd like some proof that "huge huge" numbers of soldiers are rapists ArmyofPenguins
Btw today isn't just about those in the army and commemorating them.uts about all the war dead and veterans. That'll include the Navy and the RAF.
One of those links no longer works.
There is no evidence that the allegations on the Tehran Times forum is anything other than allegations. Accused not convicted. Plus I'm not convinced news from Iran is exactly reliable.
The daily mail ones are about isolated incidents.
So...no you can't provide any evidence that a huge number of British soliders are rapists.
This year is more important to me than most others since it is the centenary of the RBL and the 30th anniversary of the Falklands war. Closer to home this year is the 25th anniversary of the Enniskillen massacre when Irish terrorists planted a bomb at the Remembrance Sunday ceremony in 1987 and earlier this week I attended the funeral of a young woman killed in Afghanistan a fortnight ago, whether or not you agree with the politics that put the soldiers there is one thing but I feel it is everyones duty to support our troops regardless of the politics involved.
Please don't go down this route! The vast majority of service men and women are decent human beings, just like the vast majority of celebrities are not paedophiles ... The vast majority of any profession are just doing their jobs.
War brings out both the worst and the best in people.
Well that was just the first page of a google search - apologies for lazy linking. However, it cannot be denied that rape is used as a weapon of war and always has been. It's well documented. The soldiers doing the raping were demonstrably not stopped by their colleagues, so I cannot see most of them as innocents and heroes.
Sorry about that. I would wear a poppy if there was also some sort of symbol to remember that there's an ongoing war on women.
Yes it was lazy linking and served only to prove you cannot back up your claim that huge numbers of soldiers are rapists.
Oh please "war on women". Pull the other one.
YABU. Those soldiers died for other people's agendas. And they deserved to live.
And it's lovely to navel gaze in peace time but if we had been in a state of war bet no one would be agonising about this.
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