STBXH & I have been separated for about 6 months. We have been sent an invitation to a mutual friend's wedding and he has asked me not to go as it will be 'awkward'
We have an amicable split and still get along as friends. But he doesn't want me there as we will most likely be drinking (for a couple of months after the split we still shagged a bit if we got drunk). He doesn't want there to be any issues that could arise if he (and I) got drunk and said something.
He has a new girlfriend but assures me that even if we did have separate invites he wouldn't be bringing her. And that if I wasn't to go he still wouldn't
I think that there would be no awkwardness. I am simply there to celebrate the marriage between two friends. I told him that he was the one making it 'awkward' and it doesn't have to be. I'll be with the girls all night and he can be hanging with the boys, so to speak. We don't need to even be talking to each other.
He ended the conversation with, 'Well if you do end up going, do not talk to me at all the whole day'. Well duh, that is what I had just said!
This will be my first ever wedding as due to distances I haven't been able to make previous friends' weddings, even my own sister's.
WIBU to say 'sod him, I'm going and he can just lump it?'
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Is STBXH BU in regards to upcoming mutual friend's wedding?
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ThisIsMyClone · 11/09/2012 09:55
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