Sorry have name changed for this as fairly regular poster and don't want to out myself.
So here DC2 who is 8 often has friends over for tea after school. One friend in particular who would come quite often and is a lovely child. DC2 is very tall and slim. Lately DC2 has been commenting that xxxx's mum says I need fattening up and keeps asking what I feed them. Incidentally DC2 has a MASSIVE appetite, often has second helpings at mealtimes and always snacking on fruit between meals. I felt a bit cross about this but let it slide. Also to mention that DC2's friend is very overweight and would wear clothes about 3 sizes bigger to fit her. This is none of my business but I feel is relevant information.
So lately when the friend has been coming she has been bringing chocolate, haribo's and bags of crisps that her mother has sent with her. I always give them some haribos and I usually get chocolate muffins in for after tea. So cut to midweek when i was talking to xxxx's mum she suddenly said "oh you do realise xxxx has a big appetite and needs lot's of feeding." I laughed off the comment but felt like she was having a dig. I do find her quite a pushy sort of person.
So last night had the friend over for tea. Served up lasagne, garlic bread, side salad and did a few potato wedges. After I had bought ice cream for them. So we are halfway through our meal and DC2 and xxxx are almost finished when the doorbell goes and there is xxxx's mum standing there with 3 McDonalds sodding happy meals, one for xxxx and each of my DC's. To say I felt furious was an understatement but I was rendered speeechless! So she bustles in and hands them the happy meals and says "oh I thought they deserved a Friday treat"!!
My children had a few bites but couldn't manage theirs, no bloody wonder! DC's friend ate most of hers then went home with her mum. At the time I was so shocked that words and action just completely failed. My DH thinks it's absolutely hilarious which isn't helping matters. So give me some perspective, am I going over the top for being so angry and should I say something when I have calmed down?
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namechangingonceagain · 08/09/2012 10:33
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