I'll try and make it short.
DH has a 13 yo DD.
We had contact, not as regular as we'd like but we saw her.
We now have no contact, she doesn't answer his calls, emails, texts. She ignores him on the very rare occastion they are in the same company except to snarl at him.
His ex is not his biggest fan but she is pleasant when she sees him/us and responds to his texts so we don't think it's undue influence from her.
It's not just us she ignores, she's pretty much stopped contact with DH's parents and her cousins.
We got married last year, the only thing that has obviously changed. She was involved, appeared to be happy about it, she's been welcomed by family and friends. I have no children and we can't have kids together so no new sibling to push her out.
I was thinking it might be her teenage hormones? A friend suggested it might be the realisation her parents will never now get back together. (it wasn't even on the cards for that to happen).
We've asked her and his ex. We've obviously got no answer from DD and his ex hasn't really said anything except to say it's her (d/d) choice and she'll support whatever she decides which is fair enough even if I don't really agree with that stance.
So, AIBU to ask you for suggestions of what it can be?? Or what we can do that we might not have already thought of?
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fruitysummer · 31/07/2012 11:42
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