So I am 30 weeks pregnant. I have just been given a date for my csection. Needed as I have had 2 previous sections. Sadly both my parents have passed away and my siblings are dotted around country so I cannot rely on them for support and those eho live closer can't drive.
DH, is only able to take 3 days off work and may be able to work from home for a couple of days too. Originally when we discussed this I tried to emphasise that I will need help especially with school run, after school clubs etc. DH's response was "my mum will help".
So now section booked dh said "o so we will need to book breakfast and after school clubs for day of section". Err no, I thought your mum was helping. So his mum is now going to be around day of section to get dc to school and take them to hospital to see baby.
I think DH is planning to work from home on the days I am in hospital and I will only have 2 days of him being home with me. (assuming all is well of course)
He just seems to have completely forgotten that I am having an op. Today he expressed surprise that I was going to be unable to drive for a time. He had totally forgotten that you cannot drive after a csection.
Sorry long.
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grantham84 · 21/07/2012 19:43
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