It was my DMs birthday yesterday and she was having a party as it was a special birthday. We took 16mo DD for a bit so everyone could see her, but had arranged to drop her off at MILs later so she could sleep there for the night and so me & DH could go back and enjoy the party.
MIL also has our 2yo nephew at her house on weekends (BIL lives with her and he and nephews mum have split up).
We thought that as MIL knew she was having DD then BIL would have perhaps stayed in to see to his son so MIL didn't have to deal with both kids.
Instead we turned up at 8.15pm to see nephew running riot, and BIL out at the pub. We got DD ready for bed and tried to settle her down to help MIL. Anyway by this time DN was so excited to see our DD that he would not go to bed and was screaming at the top of his lungs (and ended up climbing out of his cot). Obviously our DD would then not sleep and was crying so we asked MIL if she wanted us to take DD home, and she said that was probably for the best.
We couldn't go back to the party with DD as she will not sleep with all that noise and was very tired. I also felt bad about going back on my own and leaving DH at home as we were both really looking forward to it, so we both ended up going home with DD, and my mum.was very upset!
I think I need a bit of perspective as I feel annoyed at MIL and think she could have called BIL and told him to look after his son, especially as she has DD overnight rarely.
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StarMeKitten · 26/05/2012 09:34
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