I have posted on here before about this.
However ds has two good friends at school and I have always invited them both over in after school sleepovers etc.
I have always equaled it out fairly inviting one shortly after the other.
The invites back are not very often reciporcated but I have genreally accepted thinking they are busy etc.
The one in particular keeps saying she will invite ds over but it never happens.
I have noticed that the other two boys friendship has grown a little closer but thats fine by me they are entitled to develop their own friendships.
The problem is that over a week ago I text the mother of the lad who is always promising to invite ds over asking if her ds would like to come and I never got a reply which I thought unusual as she always texts me back quickly and her ds is always keen to come to ours.
That day on picking ds up from school ds told me the two boys where having a sleepover together at this lads I invited over again hence why I never got a reply to my text.
I know that the two lads have had a few get togethers of late and I feel a bit hurt because I am wondering where me and ds go wrong that he doesn,t get the invited despite us inviting the two lads over alot and yet they don,t seem to make time for ds to come.
I feel I should hang back a while on inviting this one lad over as its obiviously become too one sided.
The problem is that ds is asking for this lad to come again and according to ds the lad is asking to come as well.
However I will admit to feeling a bit put out about the no reply to my text that day.
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kalia · 15/05/2012 13:06
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