I am not from UK but have lived here for about 10 years now. All family apart from my immediate family unit are overseas (Aus). I havent been back for 18 months and prior to that last visit, it had been 2 years or so. The visit 18 months ago was for 2 weeks and was for my sister's wedding. It cost our family thousands to fly there for her weddingbut I wouldnt have missed it for the world. It will be about 3 years before we can get back again.
My sister and her husband didnt want gifts for their wedding, they requested money to help them go on honeymoon to UK and various european countries . They have just completed their 3 week holiday and go back tomorrow.
During the time they were here, they were in London for a total of about 7 days, in stints - 3 days, then to paris for a while then back for 2 then to other parts of europe (spain and italy) and then back for 2 . They spent the time with friends from back home who now also live in UK.
My sister didnt have any time to see me on this trip as her "itinery was too busy". We live "up north" so she kept saying it would be inconvenient to travel to see us . I said I would travel to london even to meet her for a coffee for an hour but she just couldnt fit me in.
I feel awfully hurt about this, especially as I can see she is surrounded by people she is meeting up with (facebook) and that her UK days havent been honeymoon alone time.
Am I being completely selfish thinking it was a bit rough not fitting me in even for a coffee and a hug?
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twatsvilleusa · 24/04/2012 21:19
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