to show I am asexual by wearing a black ring?

[asiatic]

Lots of asexuals wear a black ring on their right middle finger. I'm thinking of getting one. What do you thinK? Have you ever seen anyone wearing one? How would you respond to a policeman, or bus driver or teacher advertising that they are asexual? I'm thinking it might be a helpful message to avoid misunderstandings, or is it something you don't really want to know about a stranger? Would it influence your perception of other aspects of them?

[dawntigga]

I think I speak for many when I say this:

WHO THE FUCK CARES IF YOU'RE ASEXUAL?

You'reWelcomeTiggaxx

[ecclesvet]

I'd think it was some sort of goth thing, tbh. Haven't ever heard of it being a signal of asexuality.

[Choufleur]

I wouldn't know what it meant. Not exactly sure what you mean by asexual tbh.

[LaBoccaDellaVerita]

Why can't you just keep it to yourself? I don't want to know your preferences and why would anyone else want to either?

FFS.

[ThePieSmuggler]

I wouldn't know that's what it meant, have never heard of this before. I'll be interested to see what others say though. Sorry, not the most helpful post!

[ChickensHaveNoLips]

Do they? I have no particular idea why someone would feel the need to impart such knowledge. Misunderstandings like what?

[lisaro]

Never heard of it, and frankly couldn't give a shit!

[Frikadellen]

Honestly I dont care what peoples sexual orientation is and the same would go under asexual for me.

[GreenEyesAndHam]

I'd think?

absolutely nowt.

Never heard of the ring/ asexuality thing and wouldn't give a shiny shite anyway

[ValarMorghulis]

It is akin to wearing a sticker on your shoulder blade saying "i am gay"

most people wouldn't notice it, and even if they did they probably would't have any idea as to what it meant.

and even those that do, woudln't care.

I don't see why you feel you should advertise the fact you are Asexual?

[cheesesarnie]

wouldnt bother me if anyone wanted to label themselves.
not seen anyone wear one but i live in deepest darkest cornwall-we'll catch up in a few years.
if its something you want to do,go for it!

[imoanruby]

I would have no idea what it meant and to be honest i would not care - why do you think it would help people to know this about you?

[LaBoccaDellaVerita]

@ chickens - what kind of misunderstandings? Do you mean like the staff in Asda asking if you go like the clappers or what?

FFS again.

[OTheHugeManatee]

I'm not sure I see why you'd bother. I mean, I can see the point of the handkerchief code but asexuals are by definition not trying to pull so why bother signalling your absence of sexuality? No other bugger is going to know what you're on about, and it's hardly as though you're going to spot a black ring, tip another asexual the wink and then nip off into the bushes on Hampstead Heath for a furtive, breathless game of Scrabble.

[Megatron]

It wouldn't influence my opinion of you one way or another tbh. Some people may not know it's significance, others may feel it's irrelevant. It's up to you, if it's important to you then wear one. Do you feel you need to wear one to 'advertise' (wrong word I know but I can't think of another) your asexuality?

[MooncupandPizza]

If I hadn't read this thread, I wouldn't have known that a black ring on the middle right finger had any significance.
Having read this thread, I'll probably be on the lookout for it for a few days before forgetting the significance again.

I think it's odd to want to advertise your asexuality. If you receive unwanted advances, then you can just rebuff them the same way as anyone else would, surely.

And I know people advertise their marital status with rings but that's not qutie the same as their sexuality or asexuality.

[GrittersWifeAndProud]

Plants are asexual. That means they don't need a mate to reproduce. So how the hell can a person be asexual?

[catgirl1976]

Erm

people would care because?

[KatieScarlett2833]

It would depend on whether it is a nice black ring or not.

If it were nice I'd want to know where you got it.

If it were ugly I would ignore your bad taste in costume jewellery.

HTH

[BertieBotts]

I've seen someone who wears one, I knew the symbol as I used to post on aven.

Didn't make me think anything TBH, other than "I wonder if he is asexual or he just likes wearing that ring there?" - I'm in a relationship so it wouldn't make a difference to me.

[seeker]

Oh, I don't know. It might be useful to know that the bus driver was asexual -it would save me wasting time propositioning him/her.......

[ChickensHaveNoLips]

Instead of a ring to show you're not up for it, just wear a wolf fleece and stop brushing your teeth. Instant nookie repellent

[countessbabycham]

it wouldn't influence what i think of others,whether bad or good.

if it makes you more comfortable that's a good enough reason and my opinion doesn't count.

[KatieScarlett2833]

Or wear those trackies that Sir Paul is wearing on the other thread, That is just as good as a wolf fleece in repelling advances from men, women, dogs....

[candytuft63]

My cousin wears one, more so they can recognise each other, I think. Like the signet ring on the pinkie finger that gay women sometimes wear.Then there is the handkerchief code.
Gets mighty complicated.
I would wear whatever I wanted to.