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A friend of mine, who I love the bones of, recently updated her FB. In bed with DD, her boyfriend and myself, having a snuggle, spooning for 3.

This is all kinds of wrong surely? She is a wonderful person, but seems a little over involved with DD who is 18. Not that that makes much difference. Totally weirded out by it to be honest. Its more than TMI isn't though

Why are you weirded out?

They are having a cuddle ... If they were all on a sofa you wouldn't bat an eye lash

I assume it is because they are in a bed and she used the word spooning

Nothing nicer than having a cuddle with a child regardless of age

Not weird. If her DD is happy being cuddled (and I would and did cuddle with my mum at 17) there's nothing weird about it at all.

NO RUBY< THE BOYFRIEND WAS ALSO IN BED WITH THEM!!!!

SORRY, it was the DD's boyfriend. I cuddle my 18 whenever. In fact she was in bed with me the other day to warm up. I would not consider letting my daughters boyfriend into bed with us....would y ou

weird

Erm, and the problem with that is what exactly?

Perhaps he's boffing them both?

The DD's boyfriend? Yep, that does push it up the scale of weird

i dont like the expression spooning for 3, or spooning on its own either.

X-posted. Thought you were on about mums b/f, in that case that is totally weird

has anyone commented on her fb

Later on today I will curl up on a sofa with dh, mil and fil, possibly under a duvet, definitely all cuddled up together and watch the rugby.

Do you think we're weird too?

FIL may also tickle my feet in jest. His naked hands will touch my naked feed. Is this tmi too?

Are you sure it's not a joke?

will you be spooning showofumbkestands?

<<innocent>>

Maybe my age, but I always thought that "spooning" was having sex in the "spoons" position.

Can´t imagine getiing into bed with my daughter & her boyfriend-or them getting in with me tbh-unless we were having a cup of tea in bed

Showofumblestands. Yeah that is really weird. Just put the heating on, it might be the only answer. By the way no fucking way my FIL would touch me anywhere least of all my feet.

I don't think its a joke. No one commented onthe post which suggest a shocked silence.

I'm stunned.

Hmm - doesn't sound right to me - 'spooning for 3' ...with the daughter's boyfriend. A bit cringy.

Could anyone have hijacked her FB page? (I know the term for it but I cannot bring myself to use it)

I speak as the victim of a merry jape of this nature which took months of explaining away

ShowOfUmblestAnds Umm each to their own but yes, I do think letting your FiL tickle your feet under a duvet is a bit weird, sorry.

She is a bit unboundaried with DD, had her very young and that. Don't reckon she's been jacked though as there have been no sort of apologies for it. Gluey second the stunned. I felt a bit sick at the thought. DD has had previous boyfriends who have almost been resident at the house, but this sort of access is really new to me.

It is only weird if the BF is spooning the OP's daughter. Otherwise its just the BF cuddling the OP and the OP cuddling her DD.

Oops. Re-read OP and its DD's BF in bed with them. Slighly weird.