ArraaahhhARGH!! I feel like screaming!
My 5 year old is a lovely child. BUT hes being a little bugger just recently. His baby brother is 8 months old, the adore one another. DS1 is absolutely lovely to his brother.
The last 3-4 weeks (since he broke up from school hes been back 1.5 weeks) hes started attention seeking fake crying. Its loud, its dry eyed, its often monotone, it can continue for 2 hours and can and cannot continue into a full blown tantrum.
It frightens the baby, I HAVE to tend to him when it happens as hes scared. DC1 will refuse to coverse during these times so I simply say "Youre frightening DC2, so I'll have to comfort him now. I'll talk to you when you stop crying."
Trying to talk to him about equals him 'crying' harder. These episodes occur over the smallest things, sometimes over nothing.
He gets a LOT of one on one attention. More so with his Dad (we've noticed the more alone time he has with his Dad the worse his behaviour is. We have no idea why but we plod along regardless.) I often ask him to do stuff with me, just us but nearly always says no he'd rather do it with his Dad. But he does spend time with me too.
DC2 is in my bed Dp on the sofa. Once a week or so DC1 will wake, plod down stairs and join his dad. His dad will try and persuade him to go back to bed, he refuses, DP relents. They sleep.
Only last night he started screaming. It was 1am. It lasted an hour, it woke the baby who was scared out his witts despite being upstaira behind a closed door with me. I was LIVID. Literally never been so cross. He KNOWS it effects his brother thus me which is why he did it.
Id NEVER dare do something like that as a child.
He lost all his lego for a week but doesnt seem to give a crap.
AIBU to be considering further punishment?! I know its a no-no to punish twice but this had got to stop! Reward charts have never worked with him. Although we have a marble jar for good behaviour. It does not work.
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To punish my sons attention seeking SCREAMING?
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WhiteTrash · 19/01/2012 13:06
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