I have no idea why this is getting to me so much!
We've had a small business for the past decade. It has all gone fruit-shaped and we are closing next week. I will be going bankrupt shortly after. It's fine: in many ways I am quite relieved as I am fed up spending a huge amount of time worrying about it and it has been a long slog with little reward for most of the way.
We told our two casual staff last week and they are fine. We didn't tell our cleaner (who does 10 hours a week) as she had already handed her notice in after finding another job. I would have liked to tell her as she's really nice, but it was something we needed to keep very quiet. She came in mid week and said she hadn't actually got the other job and could we keep her on. So business partner said no and explained why. And now I hear that just about everyone in our small town knows we are closing and it seems there has been a picture painted of huge debts and us ripping loads of people off - this is absolutely not the case and the person who comes off worst in all of this is me. And the source is our cleaner. And then she had the bloody cheek to unfriend me on facebook!
I am so annoyed, but I am not sure why it's getting to me so much. I thought she was nice and we did our best to help her out with flexible hours, loads of sick pay etc, but she has helped us out too and usually pulled her weight. I had no illusion we were good friends, but she was a pleasant acquaintance. I can see why should we be annoyed at not being told and why not being able to come back would be a pain - and so i can also see her reaction is probably to be narked at me in particular. So WHY am I so wound up about it?!
Please help me to get a grip. I have so much work to do this week it's untrue, a poorly DD, a slipped disc and a cold and stewing over this is the last thing I need. And now I'm rantng too....
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to be really, really annoyed at someone I hardly know for unfriending me on facebook...
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Goldrill · 24/12/2011 21:08
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